Unexpected kindness where there usually was misunderstanding, being exposed or bullying or simply finding only closed doors. For some reason, this stopped. It is almost hard to believe that this should be having an end, but for the first time since long, i feel warmth and being respected and it starts as if i could start to trust in being included. It brings tears to my eyes in great relief, as it was so painful all the time. It has been as if reliving childhood trauma again and again. May be i needed this to crack open. I don´t know, but the surprise that this should have an end is almost unbelievable. So grateful for this almost fundamental and unexpected change. Happy to share it here, and thank you for your listening. Thank you.
I am going to take a few days away from here while dealing with my daughter’s illness. She is still in the hospital. I appreciate prayers and thank you.
I had to think about this question for a bit. Then I thought about the article, “Searching for Purpose? Try Living Gratefully.” The lead to this article is on the same page as the Daily Question, the page on this website that I come to each day. I remember reading this article a month or two ago and finding it to be helpful. I think about and fret a bit over things like finding my purpose. This is purpose-anxiety as the article explains. I was surprised to find it to be so helpful the first time I read it. I was pleased to find it so helpful again.
Sending love.
My fifteen-year-old daughter sharing deep gratitude and appreciation for proseprity and privilege. She is aware that not everyone has the same life experience and showed deep humility. She is also wanting to engage is positive social change.
Currently, nothing has happened to surprise me, but I’m absolutely looking for a surprise. May everyone have a wonderful day filled with love and joy. 🌸
My father-in-law sent me a gift card for Christmas. In the 6 1/2 years I’ve been with his son, he has never sent anything – which is fine! He doesn’t usually celebrate or acknowledge anything, so it was a pleasant surprise getting a gift card. I texted him to thank him, and he told me he wanted to find something yoga-related for me, but since he knows nothing about it he thought a gift card would be better. It was truly a nice surprise, and I was able to get a yoga book I’ve been wanting and some mat cleaner 🙂
SunnyPatti, I have been married to my lovely wife Cheryl for 37 years. I know my father has never sent Cheryl anything, either. He is 93 now, so he better get a move on!
My biggest surprise these days is having to rely less on backstage politics, because being closer to god brings me greater protection and automatically allows me to rest my mind.
Sunday evening, we met young friends for dinner at a local restaurant. They are from out of town and we had this restaurant in mind as it is “kid friendly” and they have 3 kiddoes. Historically, the two oldest, 5 and 7, have not been all that pleasant to be around, I have actually used the term brats. And along with that, I love their energy! My surprise was how engaging they were with very little disrespect for one another or their parents. I understand the nature of children and so appreciate their take on things. Disrespect is another story. It was such a treat to see they may be moving through that. ♥️
Each year I try to go to see the beautiful Christmas Lights at Florida Botanical Gardens in Largo. This year was special because we took my dad. I was surprised to find out he had never been before. His wife, Pat, used to sing in the Clearwater Choir and had performed there years ago. We all had a great time. They do an outstanding job.
My facial skin seems to be recovering at a good clip. One week since I finished the fluorouracil treatment. One to three weeks, I was told, for healing. I am surprised and grateful. I must say it was awful. Peace, Love & Surprise. Namaste.
I don’t like to admit in the moment
how uncomfortable a situation is,
dear Joseph,
but can only say how awful it was,
once it is almost over.
You were so gracious while suffering,
but now we know how bad it was.
You’re coming out now
with flying colors. ♥
My first reaction/answer to today’s question (What has surprised me in a positive way recently?) was “Not much!” Honestly, upon awakening very early this morning, I’ve had to initiate my gratefulness practice because my current personal challenges and the “us and them” mentality rampant in the world these days can make it hard not to feel like there is nothing I can do to lift myself or another up. Then I read Richard Rohr’s meditation for today which reminded me that my focus needs to be on “being” not “doing.” I share the link to the reading which I found to be a very positive and helpful reminder. https://cac.org/daily-meditations/dissolving-into-love/
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Unexpected kindness where there usually was misunderstanding, being exposed or bullying or simply finding only closed doors. For some reason, this stopped. It is almost hard to believe that this should be having an end, but for the first time since long, i feel warmth and being respected and it starts as if i could start to trust in being included. It brings tears to my eyes in great relief, as it was so painful all the time. It has been as if reliving childhood trauma again and again. May be i needed this to crack open. I don´t know, but the surprise that this should have an end is almost unbelievable. So grateful for this almost fundamental and unexpected change. Happy to share it here, and thank you for your listening. Thank you.
May the unexpected kindness and healing continue. Thank you for sharing, Emilia.
Thank you, dear Sunnypatti for your warmhearted reply.
I am grateful for this miracle,
dear Emilia . . .
may it continue to bless you
in the future
with love . . . ♥
Thank you very much for the good wishes and your love shining through, dear Sparrow.
I am going to take a few days away from here while dealing with my daughter’s illness. She is still in the hospital. I appreciate prayers and thank you.
Sending healing prayers for your daughter. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Thinking of your daughter and also you, Robin Ann 🙏🏼
Your daughter,
dear Robin Ann,
remains in my heart
as she continues to face her challenges . . .
you do too. ♥
May healing thoughts and vibes reach your daughter, Robin Ann.
May the good progress your daughter had made continue, dear Robin Ann. My prayers will be with you and your daughter. Blessings to you.
I had to think about this question for a bit. Then I thought about the article, “Searching for Purpose? Try Living Gratefully.” The lead to this article is on the same page as the Daily Question, the page on this website that I come to each day. I remember reading this article a month or two ago and finding it to be helpful. I think about and fret a bit over things like finding my purpose. This is purpose-anxiety as the article explains. I was surprised to find it to be so helpful the first time I read it. I was pleased to find it so helpful again.
Sending love.
Hmmm, surprised? I don’t think I’ve been truly surprised lately. I’m not sure if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.
Charlie, I find it to be a good thing. As the old saying goes “No news is good news.”
My first impulse is to agree with you,
dear Charlie . . .
I will have to think on this.
Thank you. ♥
My fifteen-year-old daughter sharing deep gratitude and appreciation for proseprity and privilege. She is aware that not everyone has the same life experience and showed deep humility. She is also wanting to engage is positive social change.
This is beautiful, Avril. I am not surprised. ♥️
Thank you Mary
Avril, she sounds mature beyond her years.
Thank you loc
Yes.
The open, loving support I recently received from a group after I shared a vulnerable topic.
Currently, nothing has happened to surprise me, but I’m absolutely looking for a surprise. May everyone have a wonderful day filled with love and joy. 🌸
My Ngoc, I can tell that you love surprises. I’m not a planner, but this is one area where we’re also on opposite sides of the coin.
My father-in-law sent me a gift card for Christmas. In the 6 1/2 years I’ve been with his son, he has never sent anything – which is fine! He doesn’t usually celebrate or acknowledge anything, so it was a pleasant surprise getting a gift card. I texted him to thank him, and he told me he wanted to find something yoga-related for me, but since he knows nothing about it he thought a gift card would be better. It was truly a nice surprise, and I was able to get a yoga book I’ve been wanting and some mat cleaner 🙂
SunnyPatti, I have been married to my lovely wife Cheryl for 37 years. I know my father has never sent Cheryl anything, either. He is 93 now, so he better get a move on!
What a lovely surprise! Hope this is a new tradition for him.
My biggest surprise these days is having to rely less on backstage politics, because being closer to god brings me greater protection and automatically allows me to rest my mind.
“… being closer to god brings me greater protection and automatically allows me to rest my mind.”
Beautiful, Loc.
Sunday evening, we met young friends for dinner at a local restaurant. They are from out of town and we had this restaurant in mind as it is “kid friendly” and they have 3 kiddoes. Historically, the two oldest, 5 and 7, have not been all that pleasant to be around, I have actually used the term brats. And along with that, I love their energy! My surprise was how engaging they were with very little disrespect for one another or their parents. I understand the nature of children and so appreciate their take on things. Disrespect is another story. It was such a treat to see they may be moving through that. ♥️
I’ve had this experience too, Mary. I have found it to be very encouraging!
Each year I try to go to see the beautiful Christmas Lights at Florida Botanical Gardens in Largo. This year was special because we took my dad. I was surprised to find out he had never been before. His wife, Pat, used to sing in the Clearwater Choir and had performed there years ago. We all had a great time. They do an outstanding job.
Aww, this story warms my heart.
My facial skin seems to be recovering at a good clip. One week since I finished the fluorouracil treatment. One to three weeks, I was told, for healing. I am surprised and grateful. I must say it was awful. Peace, Love & Surprise. Namaste.
So happy for you that it is healing so quickly, dear Joseph. May full recovery be soon. Blessings.
I’m happy for you, Joseph.
I don’t like to admit in the moment
how uncomfortable a situation is,
dear Joseph,
but can only say how awful it was,
once it is almost over.
You were so gracious while suffering,
but now we know how bad it was.
You’re coming out now
with flying colors. ♥
Right now the color of a properly steamed crab!
Oooh . . .
not quite there yet. 🙂
I’m very happy for you, Joseph. Such a wonderful surprise. May your healing continue and your surprise be nurtured even more!
Glad the tx is over and now you can continue on with the healing process.
My new job, it wasn’t what I was looking for, buts it’s where I am supposed to be right now.
So interesting, Deann. From my experience, new jobs can be very surprising. I’m glad that see the good in it. ♥️
My first reaction/answer to today’s question (What has surprised me in a positive way recently?) was “Not much!” Honestly, upon awakening very early this morning, I’ve had to initiate my gratefulness practice because my current personal challenges and the “us and them” mentality rampant in the world these days can make it hard not to feel like there is nothing I can do to lift myself or another up. Then I read Richard Rohr’s meditation for today which reminded me that my focus needs to be on “being” not “doing.” I share the link to the reading which I found to be a very positive and helpful reminder. https://cac.org/daily-meditations/dissolving-into-love/
The kindness of strangers…….
EJP! I know right ? The so called strangers are us our brothers and sisters. They do everything for us . We are so blessed. Thank you . 🙏