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  1. Antoinette88615
    Antoinette
    2 weeks ago

    Meditation 100%!

  2. Charlie T
    Charlie T
    2 weeks ago

    Certainly coming to this site fits the bill. Also, my morning coffee while sitting by the window is a nice ritual. I do have a weekly activity, and that’s mountain biking. It gets me out and into nature. I get to spend time with friends, and I get a good physical workout.

  3. Robin Ann
    Robin Ann
    2 weeks ago

    Going to weekly Mass, spending time with my children (in person or otherwise), spending quality time with life time friends, Sailing, Biking, yoga, going to music concerts and walks in nature/Ocean. Also coming and participating on this site. 💕

  4. sparrow51014
    sparrow
    2 weeks ago

    I spent much of my childhood alone
    and left to my own devices . . .
    we all were.
    My sister made fashion designed paper dolls in her room
    and my brother experimented in the back yard,
    getting himself stuck
    (upsidedown)
    in an old brick barbeque chimney.
    My parents
    had to call the fire company
    to get him out.
    I loved to explore the neighborhood,
    and crawled through culverts
    that would have incited a stroke in my mother
    had she known.
    This was my bliss,
    along with all sorts of other trouble
    I found for myself.

    As I got older
    I discovered other ways to find my joy . . .
    I spent days
    drawing pictures,
    writing stories,
    and did some wood carving . . .
    a bird with spread wings,
    carnelians for eyes,
    and a beak of obsidian,
    held aloft
    by a thin strip of bamboo
    inserted under its belly.
    I taught myself how to knit and crochet,
    to tat like my great aunt did,
    and to macrame.

    The urge to create
    has always been strong in me,
    has fed my soul for as long as I can remember.
    There is something about doing one thing
    that makes another thing happen
    is a joy of discovery
    each time it happens.
    What I finish with
    is always different
    from what I started out with
    and is often quite unexpected.

    Now,
    the gardens give me what I crave as well . . .
    I plant a seed . . .
    it may be so tiny
    I can hardly see it,
    or as big as a pea,
    and if I tend it well,
    and watch it unfold,
    amazing things happen.
    Each spring
    I am in awe that what I’ve planted
    comes back,
    sometimes in multiples.

    And forget about vegetables . . .
    to see a mature broccoli crown
    or ‘tree’ of Brussels sprouts,
    long, golden carrots
    dug up from the earth,
    a ripe, purple eggplant
    hanging so elegantly on its stem
    is almost a joy beyond measure . . .
    nothing like you would imagine in the grocery store.

    Since becoming grateful
    I see the task of washing them
    as holy,
    and I treat them with tenderness.
    This feeds my soul as well.
    So does sweeping the floor,
    doing the laundry,
    painting a picture,
    and making the bed.
    I am grateful to be able to do all of these things . . .
    grateful for eyes to see,
    hands to hold the paintbrush
    and the broom,
    knees and back that bend
    to plant the seeds and change the sheets . . .
    grateful to have a home to take care of
    at all.

    I fill myself up
    heart and soul
    with more gifts
    than I am able to contemplate. ♥

    1. D
      Drea
      2 weeks ago

      Today is a big planting day for me. Can’t wait to see the potatoes and squash poke up. I’m planting late, but have faith.

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        2 weeks ago

        I am doing the last of my own planting late too,
        dear Drea . . .
        we’ve had pouring rain
        for the last three days,
        but like you,
        I have faith too. ♥

  5. Barb C
    Barb C
    2 weeks ago

    My husband and I start each day together on our sofa. He makes coffee and brings me my cup and the French press. The cat curls up on my lap to share his warmth. We talk about what the day holds and make plans if we’re doing something together, maybe reminisce about a memory or talk about some minor ache or pain. Our running joke now is to say “when we get old” as the time we’ll do something we don’t feel like doing now, in our early 60s.

    Then my husband goes off to do his thing, maybe do a bike workout on the trainer, chores or errands, working in the garage on his radio-controlled model airplane hobby. I read poetry and some daily reading; right now that’s Mark Nepo’s The Book of Awakening and The Daily Artist’s Way. I come to this site, read your responses, maybe comment or respond, and write in my journal. At some point I always look out the front window toward the tall trees in the park that lies in that direction, then out the back sliding door to the Dr. Seuss tree and the arborvitae that provide a buffer between our yard and the neighbors, and look at what I can see of the sky to gauge the weather.

    Some days I’ll then do yoga and meditate. That doesn’t work in the schedule every day. This time of year I’ll also try to sit out on the deck for a bit listening to the birds and looking at the green and growing life in our yard.

    At some point in each day I go outside and look at the sky. Sometimes that’s the very end of the day because I spent all day looking at computer screens. Each night before bed I look out my window at the night sky, smile at the moon if she’s there, look for stars.

    This question is a reminder to pay attention to how I spend some of my time and ask if it feeds my soul. Playing games on my phone may be relaxing and I guess that’s soul food in a way, but not as nourishing as some of the other things I could do with that time. Not that every single moment has to have a deep and weighty meaning, though.

    1. Michele
      Michele
      2 weeks ago

      Reading your reflection made me smile. You’re a good writer Barb.

      1. Barb C
        Barb C
        2 weeks ago

        Thank you, Michele!

    2. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      I’m sure it’s not like this every day,
      dear Barb . . .
      that would be asking too much,
      but what you have described here
      is certainly a beautiful day
      and I don’t wonder
      that it feeds your soul. ♥

      1. Barb C
        Barb C
        2 weeks ago

        Some days it’s more like “quick, get dressed, you have a meeting that starts soon!”, Sparrow. Those days don’t feel quite right.

        1. sparrow51014
          sparrow
          2 weeks ago

          I completely get it,
          dear Barb . . .
          I remember those days well.
          Now
          it might be a doctor’s appointment
          that gets me up early. 🙂

  6. D
    Drea
    2 weeks ago

    Sitting in the sun, hot morning coffee/tea, petting dogs, laughing with my husband & friends, eating fresh, home cooked food; reading, laying in my warm bed, listening to birdsong, swimming, walking/running outside, gratefulness practice here, there are many more …

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      ”laying in my warm bed…”

      Ahhhhh…………..
      I used a gift card for Target last weekend
      to buy a new,
      pillow soft mattress pad,
      and am looking forward
      to feeding my soul tonight
      by laying down on it
      for the first time. 🙂

      1. D
        Drea
        2 weeks ago

        I hope it was heavenly, Sparrow!

        1. sparrow51014
          sparrow
          2 weeks ago

          It was,
          dear Drea . . .
          like sleeping on clouds. 🙂

      2. Joseph
        Joseph McCann
        2 weeks ago

        May your slumber be pleasant and nourishing on the new mattress pad, dear Sparrow.

        1. sparrow51014
          sparrow
          2 weeks ago

          My slumber was pleasant last night,
          dear Joseph,
          and my dreams
          sweet. 🙂

  7. Kathy29496
    Katrina
    2 weeks ago

    What feeds my soul each day: coming here each day to read and respond, connect and communicate our gratitude for life; working in my flower gardens a little or a lot, and some home-keeping/tending; coffee & daily meditations; a connection with good friends or sisters or kids; Bible readings of some sort; my husband and my dog.

  8. Yram
    Yram
    2 weeks ago

    Coming to this site and reading the comments here and in the lounge.
    Checking the weather in my city as well as that of my relatives in distant cities
    Drinking a hot beverage.
    Watching the birds at the bird bath.
    Reading poetry and inspirational quotes.
    Writing the activities of the day and scratching them off as accomplished.
    Doing a mind stretching word puzzle.
    Connecting with others.

  9. Carla
    Carla
    2 weeks ago

    Quiet time in the morning and evening. Reading a spirituality book, journaling., stopping in to this website, and nurturing phone calls with close friends.

  10. EnnDee Gee
    EnnDee
    2 weeks ago

    Meditation, stretching outdoors every morning, and listening to the house wrens tweet all day long feed my soul.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      The wrens in my neighborhood
      feed my soul as well,
      dear Enndee. ♥

      1. EnnDee Gee
        EnnDee
        2 weeks ago

        I anticipate their coming in the spring, such sweet sounds!

  11. Michele
    Michele
    2 weeks ago

    Starting my day by coming onto this website and answering/viewing the Daily Question.
    Meditations/ASMR in the evening
    Nature always feeds my soul
    Happy Sunday to all. ☮

    1. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      2 weeks ago

      Thank you and a Happy Sunday to you Michele.

    2. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      Peace to you as well,
      dear Michele. ☮

  12. J
    John
    2 weeks ago

    I must play guitar – it helps me.
    I play, sing, learn new chords or chord variations, but I MUST play

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      Music,
      I believe,
      dear John,
      is one of the keys to the kingdom.
      My husband plays,
      but not for the last few years.
      I long for the day
      when he picks up his guitar again.

      Keep playing. ♥

  13. D
    Deann
    2 weeks ago

    Prayer, meditation, music, being with nature, writing, reading, spending time with family and friends. All fill my soul.

  14. L
    Loc Tran
    2 weeks ago

    I have quite a few.
    1. Talking to Ngoc
    2. Morning and evening walk
    3. Reading Vietnamese books
    4. Group meditation at the Uptown Vail Place clubhouse in Minneapolis even if I’m the only one who shows up the most consistently at times.
    5. Bible study whether it’s the U-Bible version or Red Letter Ministries Discord group. There, it could either be studying the materials alone or joining the mens meeting group every Sunday at 1pm. I group all that into 1 category, Christianity.

    1. D
      Deann
      2 weeks ago

      I love that talking with a gov was number 1.

      1. L
        Loc Tran
        2 weeks ago

        Deann, this points back to my past answers that are consistent with putting my ego aside to embrace the love, care, and affection from my elders. Having a sister-in-Christ innocent like a dove in Angela helps. At the end of the day, truth is truth. It certainly feels empty without Ngoc.
        Victor Wembanyama has become my favorite NBA player now. He’s the French sensation who can do-it-all, insanely competitive, a gym-rat, mature beyond his years, and has great upside at age 22. All these qualities align with me. The team I’m becoming a fan of is the Spurs, because Wemby is the future of tomorrow’s NBA. Spurs are currently down 2-1 in the best of 7 western conference finals series against the Thunder. They’re the wild card. If my Spurs win, great. If they lose, there are always lessons to learn.
        But anyways, not having Ngoc around is like Wemby carrying the Spurs alone. He had that monster 41 points 24 rebounds game on Monday from what I vaguely remember. What I remember for sure is that it was a monster 40-20 game to lead the Spurs to a thrilling double overtime 122-115 game 1 victory against the Thunder. My San Antonio Spurs are currently down 2-1 against the Oklahoma City Thunder.

  15. Patti
    sunnypatti
    2 weeks ago

    Yoga, meditation, walks with my husband and dogs, coming to this website, preparing food, and drinking coffee ☕✨

    1. L
      Loc Tran
      2 weeks ago

      Sunnypatti, this is a great season for a walk. Those 70s and 80s temps are coming in more consistently now starting today in the Twin Cities.

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