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  1. Robin Ann
    Robin Ann
    2 weeks ago

    As a single Mother when I was younger with an ex spouse unemployed this is a very important topic to me. I have helped out with making sandwiches and dishes for the needy and I have also volunteered at Food Banks.
    I also worry about food for the needy and the cost right now given the upcoming crack down on Snap benefits and lack of funding going to food Banks.
    My church for many years will be giving funds to a local food pantry to build a new kitchen this year. I just learned that recently. The need is real!

    1. Mary
      Mary
      2 weeks ago

      This certainly is a time when food banks need help.
      They need volunteers and donations.
      This is something I can help with.
      Thank you for bringing this up Robin Ann.

      1. Robin Ann
        Robin Ann
        2 weeks ago

        yes for sure, it is very rewarding to help too

  2. sparrow51014
    sparrow
    2 weeks ago

    I learned from a very early age
    that I and my family
    were fortunate to have enough food to eat . . .
    even though my mother was very thrifty
    she almost always put something on the table
    that was not only palatable
    but also mostly tasty.
    My father said ‘Grace’ before we dined on fish sticks,
    welsh rabbit,
    waffles,
    and homemade macaroni,
    which was really good.
    For breakfast,
    sometimes we had the treat of some scrapple,
    and lunch once in awhile,
    canned tuna fish or SPAM sandwiches
    and every autumn,
    she would make shoo fly pie.
    We were never truly hungry.

    I was daily reminded of the starving children in India,
    so much,
    that it ceased to have meaning for me
    until I saw a story about it on the television
    when I was older.
    It was then
    that I knew the world was broken . . .
    I knew there was enough food for every living creature on the planet,
    but a vast majority were deprived.
    I looked at the shriveled and wizened bodies of children
    barely strong enough to lift their heads,
    at the gaunt faces of their parents,
    and hunger
    took on a whole new meaning.

    No,
    I did not become a chef
    and travel the world feeding those in need,
    but I have a vast amount of respect for those who do.
    Now I share what I have,
    whether it be vegetables and herbs from the garden
    or a quiche or a hearty stew I have made.

    Being fully aware
    that what we eat
    is a gift from our planet to us,
    I now cook and bake with heart . . .
    I try spices and seasonings from other lands,
    and make the most out of what i stock in my pantry.
    I cook now,
    with presence and reverence
    with what has been made available to me . . .
    I offer my gratitude
    with every bite,
    with every savory aroma,
    and every piece of burnt potatoe I put in my mouth . . .
    the failures and successes are all good . . .
    it is ALL good. ♥

    1. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      2 weeks ago

      My lovely wife Cheryl asked if there was anything ‘special’ to eat I would care for on fathers day past. The only thought that came to my mind followed right on out . . . . Thank you for asking but every meal I eat is special.

  3. Ose
    Ose
    2 weeks ago

    To deeply enjoy eating to me seems to be one way of honoring the food which we are offered so abundantly and in uncountable variety by kindred people from all over the planet, while in the same time being aware that this cannot be taken for granted at all. as so many people worldwide do not have access even to the most basic nourishment and clean water. To prepare the food respectfully and to cook it carefully, choosing herbs mindfully and let the vegetables unfold their individual, nourishing and tasting present through our loving creation and in doing so, adding joy and delight to the dear ones you cook for. This way, the farmer, the ones who transport it, the ones who sell it and the cycle of life offering the food at hand are all honored also. To be able and allowed to add milled Tonka bean originated in South America to a dessert or cinnamon to the beloved Apple pie is an invaluable gift given from our Mother Earth as well as countless people working for it to arrive at my plate. I bow my head to all of you and deeply thank you all dearly.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      Namaste,
      dear Ose . . . ♥

  4. Charlie T
    Charlie T
    2 weeks ago

    I could give thanks more often. I know how fortunate I am to have my caloric needs met.
    And not just met, but I have access to some of the most delicious and nutritious food anywhere, and like most things, I tend to take it for granted.
    I will try to be more present when I am eating and not just blindly eat while doing other things.

  5. Carol Ann Conner
    Carol Ann Conner
    2 weeks ago

    I think we have to nurture our food the same way our food nurtures us. Some times I’m in too big of a hurry and I eat without savoring my meal. This may partly be because I often am eating alone. Everything comes down to the need for awareness, the need to give thanks, the need to be present. This evening my 23 year old neighbor is coming to learn how to make chocolate zucchini cake. She is a newly wed and she admitted to me on the phone last night that she doesn’t even own a baking pan and she’s not sure she even wants to own one–not sure she will enjoy baking. I bake a lot and always share what I bake with family, friends, neighbors, the mail man, etc., etc. That’s how she knows about the chocolate zucchini cake! Turning ingredients into something tasty and sharing the product brings me joy. It does not escape me that people are starving due to war, to climate change, to man’s inhumanity to man. A beautiful hymn written by John Foley comes to mind. If you trace the origins of the word, Lord, it is defined as the “bread giver.”
    One bread, one body, one Lord of all
    One cup of blessing which we bless
    And we, though many, throughout the Earth
    We are one body in this one Lord
    Gentile or Jew
    Servant or free
    Woman or man
    No more
    One bread, one body, one Lord of all
    One cup of blessing which we bless
    And we, though many, throughout the Earth
    We are one body in this one Lord
    Many the gifts, many the works
    One in the Lord
    Of all
    One bread, one body, one Lord of all
    One cup of blessing which we bless
    And we, though many, throughout the Earth
    We are one body in this one Lord
    We are one body in this one Lord

    As Joseph Campbell said to Bill Moyers many years ago on the series, “The Power of Myth.” We need a new myth and it must be about the planet. Here’s the link:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwxQerZ5jOs

    1. Elizabeth H67151
      Elizabeth H
      2 weeks ago

      How special that you are reaching out to your neighbors in this way, Carol Ann! I love that you are not only bringing them chocolate zucchini cake, but teaching your young neighbor how to cook it ♥️

    2. L
      Loc Tran
      2 weeks ago

      Carol, I love sweets. That chocolate zucchini cake sounds delicious.

  6. Elizabeth H67151
    Elizabeth H
    2 weeks ago

    Several years ago, I had written in a little notebook “The Five Contemplations at the Beginning of a Meal” (relayed by Thich Nhat Hanh). I am not sure what source I found these in. I had recently been thinking that I would like to memorize those and say them in my mind before meals. Perhaps today’s question is a good incentive to start memorizing it. (I might occasionally turn the other way on the fourth contemplation, especially if enjoying some dessert that someone has lovingly prepared that perhaps may not “nourish me and prevent illness” 🙂 )

    This food is the gift of the whole universe, the Earth, the sky, and much hard work.
    May I eat in such a way as to be worthy to receive it.
    May I transform my unskillful states of mind and learn to eat in moderation.
    May I take only food that nourishes me and prevents illness.
    I accept this food in order to realize the path of understanding and love.

    1. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      2 weeks ago

      Agreed. Thank you Elizabeth.

    2. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      This contemplation,
      dear Elizabeth,
      is a keeper . . .
      thank you for posting it. ♥

  7. Ngoc Nguyen
    Ngoc Nguyen
    2 weeks ago

    Don’t try to save too tightly when I’m able to enjoy eating. It reminds me of my grandma, and perhaps many women in Vietnam, who lived through hard times.
    Of course, eating is not the purpose of life, but even when they had some money, these women hesitated to buy food. They saved everything for their children.
    When my grandma became seriously ill, she longed for a bowl of phở. But when my aunt finally brought it to her, my grandma was no longer able to eat.
    More importantly, when I go to a buffet, I make sure to only take what I can eat.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      I’m sorry,
      dear Ngoc,
      that you your grandmother
      was not able to enjoy once last bowl of pho. ♥

    2. L
      Loc Tran
      2 weeks ago

      My Ngoc, we easily share the same sentiment. There’s more to life than eating, but we should enjoy delicious food for as long as we’re healthy.

  8. D
    Drea
    2 weeks ago

    I love to cook and bake, and touch, smell, and visually take in ingredients and processes. I can expand on that to imagine where each ingredient came from, and thank each one.

  9. pkr29022
    pkr
    2 weeks ago

    I thank the Divine for the food before me. ✨
    I say Grace before my meals. 🙏🏻
    I am ever grateful for the abundance the Divine has blessed me with.
    I thank & honor all the farmers & those who contributed to my having this abundance in my home, my kitchen and on my plate. Thank you.
    🕊️♥️

  10. Yram
    Yram
    2 weeks ago

    To support folks who volunteer in food banks, meals on wheels, organizations devoted to stamping out hunger, summer meal programs, etc

  11. Mary
    Mary
    2 weeks ago

    I frequently read, write, or watch a television program while I eat.
    Letting go of other activities and focusing on the food would allow me to honor the gift of food.
    Some attention to presentation
    and maybe a single flower in a bud vase would also hep me to stay focused on my food.
    Thank you for this question.

    1. D
      Drea
      2 weeks ago

      I put some marigolds from the garden in a glass cup on the dining room table, it is nice to have them in sight while I eat.

  12. L
    Loc Tran
    2 weeks ago

    I’ve always had a passion for dining out. Being open to foods from different cultures helps me appreciate every morsel.

  13. David Muncey
    David
    2 weeks ago

    Eat mindfully. Enjoy the flavors and texture of everything you eat. Be grateful for being full. Pray for those who have nothing to eat. Give thanks for your blessing.

    1. L
      Loc Tran
      2 weeks ago

      Great answer, David. That is a basic need we often overlook. We don’t need to go too far from home to find starving people.

  14. Patti
    sunnypatti
    2 weeks ago

    Cook with love. Eat with presence. Be mindful of excess.

    1. Michele
      Michele
      2 weeks ago

      This reminds me of my Nanny – she had (and now we all do) a jar of ‘Love’ on the stove – it was salt. I have a clear jar with a red painted heart of Love on my stove as do all my kids and even my son’s new gf has one too… I love seeing the Love jar and thinking of her.
      Yes, cooking with love, thank you:)

      1. Patti
        sunnypatti
        2 weeks ago

        Oh, a love jar!! What a beautiful idea and great daily reminder.

    2. Yram
      Yram
      2 weeks ago

      You said this very well.

    3. Mary
      Mary
      2 weeks ago

      Yes, be mindful of excess. So true.
      (Pigging out kind of ruins the whole thing. ☺️)

      1. Patti
        sunnypatti
        2 weeks ago

        haha – yes, knowing when to stop rather than pigging out! Maybe thinking that we can have some of today’s goodness tomorrow as well, or share it with someone who may appreciate it 🙂

  15. J
    John
    2 weeks ago

    Remember to help our local food bank: volunteer, donations, etc.

    There is a reason that we say “food clothing and shelter” in that order.

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