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  1. sparrow51014
    sparrow
    2 weeks ago

    Drawing, painting,
    and writing
    always turn my eyes towards what might seem ordinary,
    and transforms it
    into the star of the show,
    the diamond under glass . . .
    choosing to highlight the existence of something
    and bring it to the forefront
    always
    puts me in the position
    of seeing it in a different way.

    Just as you put a vase of flowers
    in the middle of the kitchen table,
    the subject of a drawing
    becomes the focal point . . .
    that diamond under glass,
    whether it be an old barn,
    a walkway to nowhere,
    a tire leaning against a rust, old gas pump,
    or a drawer full of sewing supplies.
    All of these things
    gain status
    and draw our eyes into the story of them,
    no matter if it is obvious
    or not.
    That’s why I love to pick odd little vignettes
    and give them life,
    so that the viewer
    might take a second look.

    Finding the spark of life in something
    is a challenge,
    but is inspiring
    once I have made a habit of it.
    That’s why I keep doing it.
    It makes my heart feel happy
    that I can draw attention to love,
    where it was not seen before. ♥

    1. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      2 weeks ago

      La chispa. All life possesses this. Thanks for the reminder, dear Sparrow.

      1. Joseph
        Joseph McCann
        2 weeks ago

        La chispa . . . . a word for all occasions!

      2. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        2 weeks ago

        ‘La chiispa’ . . .
        I had to g**gle this one,
        dear Joseph . . .
        what is ‘the chip’?

        1. Michele
          Michele
          2 weeks ago

          La chispa translates literally to “the spark” in Spanish.
          It is highly versatile and used in several colloquial and figurative ways:
          Literal Spark: A flash of fire, an electrical spark, or a small flame.
          Romantic Spark: The sudden connection or chemistry between two people.
          Wit / Humor: Denoting someone who is charismatic, funny, or clever (e.g., “tiene mucha chispa” means they are very witty).
          A Tiny Amount: Used similarly to “a pinch” or “a bit” (e.g., “una chispa de sal”)
          Slightly Drunk: In Spain, estar chispa means to be tipsy

          1. sparrow51014
            sparrow
            2 weeks ago

            Wow!
            This is a better description
            than the one I found . . .
            thanks for giving me so many to choose from,
            dear Michele. 🙂

  2. Carol Ann Conner
    Carol Ann Conner
    2 weeks ago

    My immigrant neighbor has taught me that the things that are ordinary to me are extra ordinary to her. We are gifted with so many material things in this country. Today’s question makes me realize how much I take for granted.

    1. Michele
      Michele
      2 weeks ago

      My two Cuban friends/former co-workers taught me a lot about that too.

    2. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      I couldn’t agree with you more,
      dear Carol Ann . . .
      when I was about 12
      we had two immigrants from Yugoslavia
      stay with us,
      and it was a wonder
      to share their amazement
      at what their new lives had to offer them. ♥

  3. Charlie T
    Charlie T
    2 weeks ago

    I spent the vast majority of my life, altering my perception through smoking the sacred herb.
    And as much as it held me back and limited me, it also gave me permission to look at things through a different lens. It allowed me see things a little altered. Kind of new again. It helped me to see the extraordinary in the ordinary. I thought of it as a tool, but now I think that it was more of a crutch.
    It turns out, that I have the ability to see things through different lenses, without the help of a substance. It was there all along. Sort of my child’s mind. That curious and eager mindset of my younger self. Sometimes this is quite literally through a different lens, as I look through my camera and take photos and videos. Allowing me to go to the place of light and shadow and shape and composition and color and juxtaposition.
    Much like the Richard Rohr video that Carol Ann sent me, yesterday. He talks about the right and left brain thinking. I think pondering spirituality is similar. Switching my thinking from the left side to the right side. The more I do this, the more I see.

    1. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      2 weeks ago

      To paraphrase something, I heard; Once you tell a child the name of a bird, they never see that bird again.
      Yes to the child’s mind, Charlie.

    2. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      Of course,
      dear Charlie,
      mind altering substances
      can help you see from other perspectives,
      but you are wise
      to have learned to see this way on your own.
      They are only meant to be helpers,
      after all,
      and not replacements.
      It must bring you some joy now
      that you can find the extraordinary
      in what otherwise might be considered ordinary
      in so many things! ♥

    3. Ose
      Ose
      2 weeks ago

      Thank you for your flexible mindset which I guess a many of kindred hearts might remember from childhood. Slowly I feel like possibly being able, or may be I should say be allowed, to open up again to this natural way of being in this world, to being curious and flexible in perceiving the world as you described it, which opens up to perceive the extraordinary in the so-called ordinary almost wherever I go. It really is a matter of opening up to it again, which feels like opening up again to the wonder of it all. Your post is immedeately inspiring to me, almost unexpected, I must say, as I felt so sad for what seemed to have been lost since so long. It feels like some air under my soul´s wings, inspiring to turning again to deeper meditation and to music, which I really long for but could not go deeper for a long time. Thank you dearly, Charlie.

    4. Carol Ann Conner
      Carol Ann Conner
      2 weeks ago

      Charlie, Your reference to the child’s mind touched me deeply. We mess with their little minds way too much and then they have to learn to separate weeds from the plants. Or, in some cases realize the things they call weeds are really nurturing plants!

      1. Barb C
        Barb C
        2 weeks ago

        A while back I listened to a podcast interview with the author of Urban Jungle, which is about plant life in cities. I think that’s where I learned the term “spontaneous vegetation” to use instead of “weed”. Just because a human didn’t plant it doesn’t mean it has no value, as you say.

  4. Kathy29496
    Katrina
    2 weeks ago

    I notice in me transformation of attitude, mood, appreciation, independence as well as inter-dependence. It stirs up both humility and worth of myself in the grand scheme of things.

    1. Ose
      Ose
      2 weeks ago

      Thank you, dear Katrina. I can only second this for myself also. Deeply grateful.

  5. V
    Valerie Suszynski
    2 weeks ago

    When you really consider it and realize that we truly know nothing, everything could be extra ordinary. The mind is a powerhouse. What you feed it, that is the reality it will create.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      . . . and the variety of what you feed it,
      dear Valerie,
      can open you up
      to other ways of seeing. ♥

  6. Ose
    Ose
    2 weeks ago

    How the delicate and utterly sensitive nature of a flower appears in an instant in all its timeless beauty when being tenderly perceived through the eye of the heart when the sun shines through.

    1. Charlie T
      Charlie T
      2 weeks ago

      “The eye of the heart”. ❤️

  7. D
    Drea
    2 weeks ago

    This morning, I notice the modern marvels. My computer is extraordinary–I’m somehow communicating with you through it, and receiving endless information. Cars are extraordinary, plying freeways to get us to faraway places. It’s funny how such things seem ordinary, but they’re really not.

  8. D
    Deann
    2 weeks ago

    Just how miraculous life and nature truly are.

    I saw a meme yesterday that showed a dandelion and related it to the sun, then the moon, then scattered by the wind like stars. An extraordinary cycle from something so simple as a “weed”.

    1. Michele
      Michele
      2 weeks ago

      if you do a search for ‘dandelion meme sun moon wind’ you can see images of it

      thank you for sharing Deann 🌞🌙⭐

    2. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      Weeds
      are people too,
      dear Deann. 🙂

    3. D
      Drea
      2 weeks ago

      That’s beautiful, thank you for sharing, Deann.

  9. Patti
    sunnypatti
    2 weeks ago

    I have enjoyed learning to see the extraordinary in the ordinary. Really, the ordinary IS so extraordinary… the way a plant can go from 4 leaves to 20 in just a short week, like my Japanese hibiscus did while we were away. Or the way my snake plant had a baby just sprout up one day. Or perhaps when I feel something different while in meditation or practicing yoga asanas. Something I’ve done for many years can suddenly give me a big Ah-Ha! And then I notice something about myself. A deeper peace, a bigger love, a feeling of true connection with all that is.

    1. D
      Drea
      2 weeks ago

      Had to look up Japanese hibiscus–wow! That’s a stunning flower.

  10. L
    Loc Tran
    2 weeks ago

    I become grateful for whatever I have in front of me.

  11. Michele
    Michele
    2 weeks ago

    Life teaches us to enjoy the simple ‘ordinary’ things. If something comes along that is ‘extraordinary’ fine but ordinary brings joy also.

    I finally got around to watching Eat.Pray.Love. – was excellent!

    1. Antoinette88615
      Antoinette
      2 weeks ago

      Did you read the book ?

      1. Michele
        Michele
        2 weeks ago

        no, I did not.

    2. L
      Loc Tran
      2 weeks ago

      Amen to that, Michele. Appreciate the simpler pleasures. For example, I prefer nurturing and autonomous care but can embrace protective too. Ultimately, care is just care.

      1. Michele
        Michele
        2 weeks ago

        💗

    3. Patti
      sunnypatti
      2 weeks ago

      OMG, I love that movie so much! I watched it so many times after I left my ex 😂But seriously, what a great story. The book was really good, too.

      1. Michele
        Michele
        2 weeks ago

        To me it was very similar to Under The Tuscan Sun which I loved too.

  12. Joseph
    Joseph McCann
    2 weeks ago

    The beauty of flight. The beauty of color. The sight of about 40 yellow warblers, 20 pairs by color variations, eating dandelion seeds in the hay meadows yesterday. It rained 0.25″ last evening. It was an ordinary rain but extraordinary to feel and watch. Agua es Vida.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      2 weeks ago

      All those warblers,
      dear Joseph,
      must have been quite a sight . . .
      I am always enchanted by different ways that birds fly,
      and how they fill the sky with their joy.
      I see those yellow warblers now,
      dining on those dandelion seeds
      through your eyes.
      Thank you for that. ♥

      ps. Grateful you got a little rain too.

    2. Antoinette88615
      Antoinette
      2 weeks ago

      Fantastic new about the rain ! ☔️
      I think you should write a book your writing is so eloquent.

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        2 weeks ago

        1. Barb C
          Barb C
          2 weeks ago

          A co-authored book by Sparrow and Joseph, too!

    3. D
      Drea
      2 weeks ago

      Sounds like you saw some beautiful things, Joseph. Happy to hear about the rain.

  13. Antoinette88615
    Antoinette
    2 weeks ago

    I notice the essence of oneness in all – the individual is the whole and the whole is the individual – no separation.
    Thank you . 🤩

  14. Richard51934
    Richard
    2 weeks ago

    I noticed that I have increased enthusiasm for what I am doing.

    1. Kathy29496
      Katrina
      2 weeks ago

      Yes, this!

    2. Antoinette88615
      Antoinette
      2 weeks ago

      Thanks Richard it makes me feel the same way and also that I’m constantly connected. We all matter so this enthusiasm is making a difference!

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