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  1. Mary
    Mary Mantei
    4 weeks ago

    Living gratefully lifts up what is truly important in my life, which can look similar to or very different from others lives’. It is easier to heal when I am not holding on to grievances, resentments, perceived injustices, etc. Rather focusing on all that is right in my world, and there is so much. It is one way of living gratefully, and as Lauryn noted, when you are living in that place, one can’t help but heal.🩷

  2. Patti
    sunnypatti
    4 weeks ago

    Being grateful does good stuff for our bodies… there are chemical reactions that make us feel better, and I believe that is healing in and of itself. So I don’t know a specific example of how the practice has healed me other than my overall life is generally in a better place than it was before I started.

    1. Avril
      Avril
      4 weeks ago

      It soothes the nervous system

  3. Laura
    Laura
    4 weeks ago

    I don’t recall a specific instance of healing, but living with a grateful awareness can’t help but salve wounds new and old. Anything that helps me live deeply in the moment helps me heal.

  4. Joseph
    Joseph McCann
    4 weeks ago

    I was led to this wonderful and compassionate site due my participation with an eight-week MBSR course from Palouse Mindfulness. The practice of gratefulness combined with a daily meditation, daily 20-minute standing yoga (Dr. Lynn Rosy) continued bi-weekly addiction therapy, regular Life Ring meetings (empowering your sober self) nightly herbal tea while reading all the days reflection at this site have become daily rituals for me over these past few years. I do so for the simple reason that all have helped to heal and keep whole my mental health. This in turn has helped my overall physical health. May all encounter a bit of joy, peace and health on this gift of a new day. Namaste.

  5. Avril
    Avril
    4 weeks ago

    Greetings friends, you may quickly realize todays question is linked to one from eight months ago. It’s a happy accident, I am going to scroll down and see my reflection from then and have an opportunity for additional contemplation. I am also going to email the website support and lovingly let them know. As far as healing, I mentioned I had an argument with my husband the night before last. My newfound ability to stop, look, and go transformed my experience. I am choosing my thoughts, I am learning to choose which emotions need to perpetuate and which need to have a shorter lifespan, I am choosing equanimity, I am choosing gratefulness.

    …I just looked at my old posting and it rings true. I will be challenging myself to grease my duties with love instead of mere appreciation. I am ready to step further along my path.

    1. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      4 weeks ago

      Quite bizarre Avril. Thank you for easing my confusion.

      1. Avril
        Avril
        4 weeks ago

        I’m grateful I was of service.

  6. Ose
    Ose
    4 weeks ago

    Gratefulness taught me humbleness, respecting others and acceptance, and it put a neurotic desire for symbiosis as a reaction to fear into place, into no place, which probably is an important step to healing for all concerned and for which i am deeply grateful. To choose for Gratefulness as an inner position is a beautiful choice, opening up to what is. In depth, it is oneness with all which is.

  7. barba
    barba
    9 months ago

    Healing as a growing sense of being part of life, not outside and wrong and worthless.
    How: I learned not to see the threats and fears but rather all the gifts and the gift of life. The amazement of how crazy and great it is to be alive.

  8. Robin Ann
    Robin Ann
    9 months ago

    I most certainly have!! I found this site when I was feeling extremely overwhelmed with my daughter’s addiction. I found myself paralyzed at times even though I worked hard to learn everything I could to be the best support person to her. My faith, my addiction family support all helped but practicing Gratefulness definitely was what I needed. Somehow with the Grace of God and perhaps my better mindset she is almost 6 mos sober and has already asked me to celebrate her one year of sobriety in January! I have renewed hope and my life (my health/anxiety) have improved as well. I appreciate everyone that comes to this site and reflects. I have learned so much from being part of this community. Thank you : )

    1. Robin Ann
      Robin Ann
      9 months ago

      Thank you all SO much for all your heartfelt comments, it truly means a lot to me : ) : )

    2. Michele
      Michele
      9 months ago

      I’m also routing for her too:)

    3. Avril
      Avril
      9 months ago

      Thank you for sharing–gratefulness works.

    4. Mary
      Mary Mantei
      9 months ago

      Robin Ann, your renewed energy is brilliant, shining through your words. Your daughter’s struggle and progress has changed all your lives. I am rooting for her! Blessings on you each and all.

    5. Nannette
      Nannette
      9 months ago

      Hello Robin Ann, I am so happy to hear such good news. It has been very hard for you. I have followed you all these months…and now you have a renewed hope in your heart and a spring in your step!!! Congratulations to your daughter…and may you both Celebrate her One Year Accomplishment. God Bless you both.

    6. Anna
      Anna
      9 months ago

      So happy for you, and for your daughter, dear Robin Ann.

    7. Laura
      Laura
      9 months ago

      That’s wonderful news!

    8. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      9 months ago

      Robin Ann, heartfelt thank you for all your reflections.

  9. Don
    Don Jones
    9 months ago

    If physical life is Life 1.0 and, if spiritual life is Life 2.0, just as the breath (ruach) sustains the physical (Life 1.0), Love is what sustains the spiritual (Life 2.0). Gratitude is a facet of the manifestation of that Love which cycles through my spiritual lungs (Life 2.0). In these contexts, to be truly alive, and healthy, and healed, my deepest desire is to be at one with God (the transcendence of Life 1.0 and Life 2.0). That is my Eden.

  10. sparrow51014
    sparrow
    9 months ago

    Oh goodness, yes!
    Being grateful
    has changed my perspective completely,
    by guiding me towards how much I have,
    not how little I have,
    and I don’t mean just physical things,
    but most importantly,
    my soul,
    my spirit,
    my inner self.
    This gratitude heals me,
    and helps me see
    that everything that has happened to me,
    everything I have seen, heard, or experienced,
    has been to guide me here,
    where I am now,
    and gives me hope
    that this path will continue upward.

    1. Barb C
      Barb C
      9 months ago

      Beautifully said. Good to see you again, Sparrow.

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        9 months ago

        Good to see you too,
        dear Barb . . . ♥

  11. Charlie T
    Charlie T
    9 months ago

    I think so. If I consider healing, as living
    with less suffering, then yes.
    Having a practice that helps move the
    needle towards positivity, has definitely
    Given me a more balanced outlook.

  12. pkr29022
    pkr
    9 months ago

    Living from a place of gratefulness I believe has made my life richer, happier, healthier & more complete. Having a grateful attitude makes my view of my life, the world around me rosier. I have had my share of trials & tribulations, as we all have. Keeping an attitude of gratefulness has made getting thru those “dark” moments a bit easier. I feel this attitude is not only good for my mental health but my physical health as well.
    ✨🙏🏻✨

  13. Yram
    Yram
    9 months ago

    Yes, I have experienced healing. Like many of you said, the comments that are posted here are a salve for my bumps and bruises life sometimes throws at me. I feel a calm. Yesterday, I was with a friend and we laughed so hard it cleansed both of us. So if I back up, I am grateful we have this long time connection, transportation to get to the meeting place, all the servers and cooks that made our lunch possible, etc…. how can I not be healed.

  14. L
    Lauryn
    9 months ago

    Yes, by paying more attention to the little things (the extraordinary in the ordinary) and understanding and accepting my limitations— these two things have helped shift my perspective and become more comfortable in my own skin.

    1. L
      Loc Tran
      9 months ago

      Lauryn, well said. The little things aren’t little, matter, and add up.

  15. Ngoc Nguyen
    Ngoc Nguyen
    9 months ago

    Absolutely! Life is not a shell, and that’s why I can’t avoid being hurt and needing to heal. Healing is a result of cultivating gratitude for the small and big events in my life. Life often doesn’t go as planned. The more I face unwanted occurrences with negativity, the more they pull me down. Instead, if I view these situations as opportunities for new experiences, my well-being is healed from disappointment – a result of living gratefully.

    1. L
      Loc Tran
      9 months ago

      My Ngoc, having each other helps. Even if we’re not in the same place physically each other’s spirit will always be there. That’s enough for me to feel confident in whatever I’m doing.

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