The kindness of someone who despite being ill went to a meeting where other people needed to be informed about essential changes related to their work. He is an expert on these issues and one of the rare who offers his support for just a normal fee or even for free and allows that many others who not necessarily would belong to the association may attend to be helped also. It was an unexpected very kind and really selfless offer.
I read somewhere . . .
I can’t remember where,
but it stuck,
that every so often we should perform an act of kindness to someone,
and never tell a soul
that we did it.
It struck a chord . . . ♥
A person who does not live at my Mom’s assisted living facility has been feeding a few homeless cats there. She trapped, neutered, and found homes for most of the cats in this group, who had been abandoned by a neighbor who had moved. Yet there were still a few cats that she was unable to trap. This person has given so much time and effort because she cares about the lives of these animals. I was surprised to learn of her actions, and am grateful to her for her kindness.
An old friend, that often made me feel uncomfortable and uneasy, has been much better and more aware of other people’s feelings, and my feelings in particular.
I’m assuming he has been through some life struggles that has softened him a bit.
This past Monday I was @ a local cultural center watching a movie. After the movie I got a coffee @ their cafe & left on my merry way to the library. When I got there I realized I did not have my phone. I searched thru all my “stuff”, a bit frazzled. Thinking I left my phone on the top of my trunk when I left the Art Center, (never done that before). Anyway drove back all upset, frantic, freaked. Told the people at the info desk & security guards my situation. They all pretty much went out of their way to help me. They were all so kind, understanding & helpful.
They reviewed security cameras. retraced my steps with me & calmed me down.
The good news is I left it in the bathroom!!! (never did that before). A security guard & his sweet dog Alpha found it.
I was quite embarrassed needless to say & relieved.
All the people who helped me were so kind, caring & loving. I was blown away by their genuine kindness & concern for me.
Yes, there are so many good, decent, honorable people out there. Unfortunately the “bad crap” gets way too much magnification.
I believe there truly is more good than not.
Keep on sharing the love folks…♥️
I don’t know that anyone has actually *surprised* me with kindness recently. I’ll reflect on a couple of instances of kindness, which is one of my core values and how I want to show up in the world.
I appreciate the drivers who move over a full lane to pass me on my bike. My town, where I’ve now lived for 5 years, seems to have more courteous drivers than other places I’ve lived so this is more a delight than a surprise.
I had a couple of different and unrelated instances of illness this week that sandwiched an overnight work trip. My coworkers were all kind and understanding as I had to cancel and reschedule meetings and take care of myself. My sweetheart kept checking up on me during and after the worst of each (a long vertigo attack, later some food poisoning) and making sure I had what I needed. He’s the first to say “take care of yourself!” when I’m feeling under the weather.
I have really enjoyed reading everyone’s responses to today’s question. There is so much kindness and love here. It no longer surprises me but does make me very thankful for all who gather here. Blessings always and all ways to all of you.
My husband’s beloved caregiver Pat died a few weeks ago, just 5 weeks after being diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. I met Pat’s daughter just a couple weeks before Pat died. The last time I saw Pat, she gave me her daughter’s phone number. Her daughter has surprised me with her kindness amidst her own grieving. She has sent me some kind texts and she offered to pick up my husband’s favorite buffalo burger from a local restaurant and drop it by for him (Pat often used to bring him a buffalo burger)
I’m sure that Pat’s daughter
understands how much her mother meant to those she cared for,
and thought of you and your husband as extended family.
What a kind thing she did
by including you both in shared grief . . .
what a wonderful gift,
dear Elizabeth. ♥
An acquaintance shared with me something to read to help elucidate a self-destructive outlook that I have. It was kind, because it was what I needed to hear.
I’m not really surprised by kindness, but I will say that everyone who worked at the hotel we stayed at in Charleston were all so friendly and kind. They all spoke to us anytime we passed them, and we had some nice conversations with a few of them. On the trip home yesterday, we stopped at a gas station that had a Starbucks. I’m not usually a Starbucks girl (I prefer local shops), but I went in for an iced chai, and all of the young women working were all so energetic and fun. I love when I see that at a business – people enjoying their jobs and giving the customer service they were hired to give. Having been in customer service for so long, it’s an area I appreciate and am always kind to the people making my drink or whatever service they are offering.
Charleston was great, but we are happy to be back home. Happy Saturday 🙂
I received news this week that a very good friend of 30+ years died post surgery with complications. I shared this upsetting news with a co-worker. She sought me out discreetly at work and gave me a supportive hug. Such a spontaneous gift! Restful weekend blessings to all 🫶🏽☮️
Sudden loss,
dear Carla,
is very painful,
as it gives you no time to prepare yourself.
I felt this way when my brother died of covid . . .
no one had called me to tell me he was sick.
I’ve had a hard time wrapping my head around it. ♥
thank you Mary. The suddenness of the loss was so jarring, and there aren’t many nearby to share this loss with. I’m grateful for the kindness of these pages…and those spontaneous commenters like yourself. 🙂
It’s not only because of the accommodations, but also because of how my professors treated me in class that I felt a sense of comfort. Of course, I see their actions as acts of kindness. May everyone have a wonderful weekend.
My Ngoc, being treated kindly by professors goes a long ways in making learning feel more comfortable. We’re cut from the same cloth; self-improvement and learning, same thing. Like I said in one of my answers days ago, I value relationships over results.
Michele, I always wondered how you knew what that special theme of the day was. Now I know! 🙂 I will have to let my husband know that today is “Bald is Beautiful Day” 😀
Your family night last night sounds like a good time! We also had family time last night– our nephew and friend came over and brought us Italian food.
nice 🙂 We all got together again last night this time at my house. I love how everyone brings something and it’s a group effort – makes things easier for the host too, lol.
I thought of you last night at dinner – my Dad brought out a recipe he had and wants Erin, my son’s girlfriend, who is a great baker, to make – Honeycomb Cake – Banh Bo Nuong. I never heard of Pandan Extract before. I will look forward to trying it one day.
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The kindness of someone who despite being ill went to a meeting where other people needed to be informed about essential changes related to their work. He is an expert on these issues and one of the rare who offers his support for just a normal fee or even for free and allows that many others who not necessarily would belong to the association may attend to be helped also. It was an unexpected very kind and really selfless offer.
It’s nice to hear about someone who really wants to help others.
He sounds like a really good hearted man.
I read somewhere . . .
I can’t remember where,
but it stuck,
that every so often we should perform an act of kindness to someone,
and never tell a soul
that we did it.
It struck a chord . . . ♥
Yes, not looking for recognition, just doing a good deed. ☀️
A neighbor stopped by with cherry tomatoes and zinnias.
A person who does not live at my Mom’s assisted living facility has been feeding a few homeless cats there. She trapped, neutered, and found homes for most of the cats in this group, who had been abandoned by a neighbor who had moved. Yet there were still a few cats that she was unable to trap. This person has given so much time and effort because she cares about the lives of these animals. I was surprised to learn of her actions, and am grateful to her for her kindness.
An old friend, that often made me feel uncomfortable and uneasy, has been much better and more aware of other people’s feelings, and my feelings in particular.
I’m assuming he has been through some life struggles that has softened him a bit.
Time wears on all life, just as water falling onto a stone, I think, Charlie.
I was thinking the same thing,
dear Charlie . . . ♥
This past Monday I was @ a local cultural center watching a movie. After the movie I got a coffee @ their cafe & left on my merry way to the library. When I got there I realized I did not have my phone. I searched thru all my “stuff”, a bit frazzled. Thinking I left my phone on the top of my trunk when I left the Art Center, (never done that before). Anyway drove back all upset, frantic, freaked. Told the people at the info desk & security guards my situation. They all pretty much went out of their way to help me. They were all so kind, understanding & helpful.
They reviewed security cameras. retraced my steps with me & calmed me down.
The good news is I left it in the bathroom!!! (never did that before). A security guard & his sweet dog Alpha found it.
I was quite embarrassed needless to say & relieved.
All the people who helped me were so kind, caring & loving. I was blown away by their genuine kindness & concern for me.
Yes, there are so many good, decent, honorable people out there. Unfortunately the “bad crap” gets way too much magnification.
I believe there truly is more good than not.
Keep on sharing the love folks…♥️
I don’t know that anyone has actually *surprised* me with kindness recently. I’ll reflect on a couple of instances of kindness, which is one of my core values and how I want to show up in the world.
I appreciate the drivers who move over a full lane to pass me on my bike. My town, where I’ve now lived for 5 years, seems to have more courteous drivers than other places I’ve lived so this is more a delight than a surprise.
I had a couple of different and unrelated instances of illness this week that sandwiched an overnight work trip. My coworkers were all kind and understanding as I had to cancel and reschedule meetings and take care of myself. My sweetheart kept checking up on me during and after the worst of each (a long vertigo attack, later some food poisoning) and making sure I had what I needed. He’s the first to say “take care of yourself!” when I’m feeling under the weather.
Barb C, that sounds like a very unpleasant “sandwich”! I hope that you are feeling much better by now.
It was, and thank you! Completely over both of them but what a week.
Wishing you a speedy recovery 🙂
Thank you Michele! All better now. Whew.
I have really enjoyed reading everyone’s responses to today’s question. There is so much kindness and love here. It no longer surprises me but does make me very thankful for all who gather here. Blessings always and all ways to all of you.
My husband’s beloved caregiver Pat died a few weeks ago, just 5 weeks after being diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. I met Pat’s daughter just a couple weeks before Pat died. The last time I saw Pat, she gave me her daughter’s phone number. Her daughter has surprised me with her kindness amidst her own grieving. She has sent me some kind texts and she offered to pick up my husband’s favorite buffalo burger from a local restaurant and drop it by for him (Pat often used to bring him a buffalo burger)
Loving kindness and silent blessings to Pat’s daughter, you and your husband.
I’m sure that Pat’s daughter
understands how much her mother meant to those she cared for,
and thought of you and your husband as extended family.
What a kind thing she did
by including you both in shared grief . . .
what a wonderful gift,
dear Elizabeth. ♥
What a sudden loss. That must be hard for you and your husband as well as for her family. And what a kindness from her daughter!
An acquaintance shared with me something to read to help elucidate a self-destructive outlook that I have. It was kind, because it was what I needed to hear.
I’m not really surprised by kindness, but I will say that everyone who worked at the hotel we stayed at in Charleston were all so friendly and kind. They all spoke to us anytime we passed them, and we had some nice conversations with a few of them. On the trip home yesterday, we stopped at a gas station that had a Starbucks. I’m not usually a Starbucks girl (I prefer local shops), but I went in for an iced chai, and all of the young women working were all so energetic and fun. I love when I see that at a business – people enjoying their jobs and giving the customer service they were hired to give. Having been in customer service for so long, it’s an area I appreciate and am always kind to the people making my drink or whatever service they are offering.
Charleston was great, but we are happy to be back home. Happy Saturday 🙂
I received news this week that a very good friend of 30+ years died post surgery with complications. I shared this upsetting news with a co-worker. She sought me out discreetly at work and gave me a supportive hug. Such a spontaneous gift! Restful weekend blessings to all 🫶🏽☮️
My condolences to you on the sudden & unexpected loss of your good friend. Sending you a virtual hug. 🤗
Thank you for the blessings, Carla and may your friend rest in peace.
Sudden loss,
dear Carla,
is very painful,
as it gives you no time to prepare yourself.
I felt this way when my brother died of covid . . .
no one had called me to tell me he was sick.
I’ve had a hard time wrapping my head around it. ♥
Oh, Sparrow, that must hurt.
I’m so sorry, Carla, to hear of the passing of your good friend.
I wish you a restful and peaceful weekend, my friend.
thank you Mary. The suddenness of the loss was so jarring, and there aren’t many nearby to share this loss with. I’m grateful for the kindness of these pages…and those spontaneous commenters like yourself. 🙂
Thank you, Carla. That means a lot to me. 🌷
I am so sorry to hear about your friend, Carla!
A hug can be such an amazing gift. There are some hugs I have received in times of sorrow that I still remember so appreciatively even 30 years later.
Thank you, Elizabeth H., I am touched by the thoughtfulness and kindness of many on this page. Thanks for reaching out with your own memories. 🙂
I’m so sorry, Carla.
Thank you, Drea. Thanks for reaching out, a kindness shared too. 🙂
I’m so sorry about your friend, Carla.
Thank you Sunnypatti, I am so touched by the spontaneous gestures of many of us reaching out to each other. It’s a balm for me during this loss. 🙂
It’s not only because of the accommodations, but also because of how my professors treated me in class that I felt a sense of comfort. Of course, I see their actions as acts of kindness. May everyone have a wonderful weekend.
I am so glad to hear that your professors have been kind and supportive, Ngoc!
My Ngoc, being treated kindly by professors goes a long ways in making learning feel more comfortable. We’re cut from the same cloth; self-improvement and learning, same thing. Like I said in one of my answers days ago, I value relationships over results.
Yesterday, my mom gave Ngoc and I some chocolate candy for dessert after dinner. My mom gave me one of her pieces. Ngoc gave me another one.
OMG didn’t think that you could count it as an act of kindness. 😂
Of course I do, my Ngoc, especially coming from someone who loves sweets.
We had a family night last night at my son’s gf home. She bought pizza and salad for us. We had a really nice time catching up.
https://nationaltoday.com/today/ – some good ones today 🙂
But–but–I thought EVERY day was International Chocolate Day! 🍫 🍪 🍫 🍪
🤣 it sure is for me
I’d love that, Barb. I’m very sure your husband would love it too. It’s natural to crave for things we’re restricted from.
Yes!
Michele, I always wondered how you knew what that special theme of the day was. Now I know! 🙂 I will have to let my husband know that today is “Bald is Beautiful Day” 😀
Your family night last night sounds like a good time! We also had family time last night– our nephew and friend came over and brought us Italian food.
nice 🙂 We all got together again last night this time at my house. I love how everyone brings something and it’s a group effort – makes things easier for the host too, lol.
It sofe does, Michele. That’s exactly the case at some of my family’s Vietnamese gatherings.
Sounds fun and delicious, Michele.
I thought of you last night at dinner – my Dad brought out a recipe he had and wants Erin, my son’s girlfriend, who is a great baker, to make – Honeycomb Cake – Banh Bo Nuong. I never heard of Pandan Extract before. I will look forward to trying it one day.
Michele, I’ve had that before, and it’s delicious.