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  1. Robin Ann
    Robin Ann
    1 week ago

    I can’t pick just one either-

    – My daughter playing flute (she was 2nd flutiest) when she was in middle school (concert and marching band).
    She was also High honors at that time in her life. She had a horse in HS and learn jumping and went to Horse camp.
    Meeting my grandson for the first time. Going to her sober meeting and presenting her with her 1 yr medallion.

    – My son was on the travel soccer team and I loved going to all of his games. He also made the HS team. The day he graduated with his Bachelor’s degree . The day he accepted a job offer from Boston Scientific and bought his first house.

    – My first trip to Ireland

    – Seeing how happy my Mother was with her grandchildren when they were younger

  2. D
    Deann
    1 week ago

    Not one specific but a collection of memories sitting on the floor listening to my granny, great aunts, mom, aunt, cousins tell old stories sometimes the same stories but there was laughter, love and a special bond. Those memories remind me what I am made of

  3. Ose
    Ose
    1 week ago

    The memory of a dear friend who had left his family without a trace and without paying for his kids, leaving them when they were only around 5 and 7 years old, of which one is my godson. Due to that the contact had to stop for many years. Then he fell ill with cancer and shortly before he died much too early, it was possible to visit him for just a few days. I am dearly grateful for these gifted days when I could sit at his bedside, speaking about the essential themes we had to share and to sort out. We had taken the chance to meet beyond the pains of once and in the same time could relate with the loving friendship of once when we were close friends, so that when I left, both of us could peacefully seperate for good. May he rest in Peace.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      1 week ago

      What a gift,
      dear Ose . . .
      I am so moved by your experience,
      and am grateful this happened for you,
      and for him. ♥

  4. sparrow51014
    sparrow
    1 week ago

    This memory
    was made in a moment of profound grief . . .
    I think I might have shared it
    some time ago.

    I believe my first experience
    of Grace,
    was after my infant son had died
    a few weeks before . . .
    sitting on top of a bluff in the grass,
    overlooking what used to be called Herring Gut harbour
    on Easter Sunday.
    I was dressed for the holiday,
    wearing a white smock dress,
    with silk flowers in my hair.
    the air was chilly . . .
    but the seagulls and terns
    were riding the currents of wind over my head,
    completely unaware
    or unconcerned about me.
    The water below
    was churning restlessly against the rocks.
    The beach bushes around me
    were swaying,
    the grass ruffling in soprano,
    my hair tossed by the currents.
    Being a part of this symphony of movement
    opened up something within me
    that I hadn’t really known existed,
    and I could feel my heart opening up
    and growing warm.
    I was not the focus of this picture . . .
    neither was the wind or the ocean,
    or the birds,
    or the bushes and the grass . . .
    we were all one
    together.
    I felt a part of all things,
    and that all things were a part of me.
    Death doesn’t separate us . . .
    it actually brings us together as one.
    It was a revelation,
    an epiphany I had been straining to find
    and that time on the hill
    brought it straight to me.
    I felt Grace,
    but didn’t recognize it by that name at the time.
    To quote Julian of Norwich,
    “All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well”

    Eventually,
    many years later
    Grace saved me . . .
    Grace healed my grief. ♥

    1. Michele
      Michele
      1 week ago

      💗

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        1 week ago

    2. Avril
      Avril
      1 week ago

      There are no words.

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        1 week ago

    3. Mary
      Mary
      1 week ago

      “I felt a part of all things,
      and that all things were a part of me.
      Death doesn’t separate us…
      It actually brings us together as one.”

      You share so generously with us in this forum, dear Sparrow.
      I learn from you and I am inspired by you.
      Sending so much love.

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        1 week ago

        I think we must share,
        dear Mary,
        to heal . . . ♥

    4. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      1 week ago

      ❤️ dear Sparrow.

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        1 week ago

    5. Ose
      Ose
      1 week ago

      Thank you for sharing this, dear Sparrow. May you always be blessed.✨🙏❤️

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        1 week ago

        Thank you,
        dear Ose,
        for your kind thoughts . . . ♥

  5. Charlie T
    Charlie T
    1 week ago

    Just one? I am grateful for the memory of going to the beach this past Sunday.

  6. Linda72766
    Linda
    1 week ago

    Can’t name just one. The many kindnesses of my father….

  7. Jenifer
    Jenifer
    1 week ago

    One of my biggest fears is my family and friends don’t know how much I love them or how much they mean to me. I was telling this to my younger sisters, to which one said “Yeni, I have never doubted your love for me” I remember being in complete shock but also a sense of ease came over me, knowing that my love is felt by my sisters. This has allowed me to Not fret over if my love is “felt enough”, that it just is. And for that, i am grateful. 🧡🙏🏽

    1. Robin Ann
      Robin Ann
      1 week ago

      That is beautiful 💕

    2. Mary
      Mary
      1 week ago

      Whenever you have spoken of your sisters, Jenifer, I have sensed much love and closeness in these relationships.
      Sending much love to you and your sisters, dear Jenifer. I’m wishing you many years of closeness and togetherness.
      Warmly, Mary

  8. Barb C
    Barb C
    1 week ago

    Only one?! I can’t do it.

    Me, holding my sleeping firstborn and saying to my then-husband, “I used to read a lot, didn’t I? And now I’m just sitting here watching her sleep.” And that was enough, and all I needed.

    Sitting in a favorite restaurant on Valentine’s Day 18 years ago wondering why it was taking them so long to bring me a glass of wine. When it arrived, it had an engagement ring tied to the stem and my sweetheart proposed.

    Listening to my younger daughter perform as Elle in her high school production of “Legally Blonde” after she had had singing lessons and crying at the beauty of her voice (in what was supposed to be an upbeat opening number).

    Another daughter-singing-Mom-crying-moment: Listening to my older daughter sing “Someone to Watch Over Me” a cappella in her elementary school’s talent show (in a lineup that involved a lot of karaoke and choreography performed by other kids) and absolutely sobbing at how rich and beautiful her voice was, as my friend turned to me and said, “Oh, Barb, best in show! Best in show!”.

    I could keep going.

    1. Mary
      Mary
      1 week ago

      Dear Barb, I have noticed such beautiful warmth, caring, and kindness, and also a very special closeness in the mother daughter relationships you have with your own Mom and with your daughters. It warms my heart.

  9. Antoinette88615
    Antoinette
    1 week ago

    When my mom gifted me this meditation that I have been doing for the last four years ! What a wonderful birthday present! It’s changed my entire life and I am very grateful. Thank you for the question to be grateful for everyone and everything!

  10. Mary
    Mary
    1 week ago

    I am grateful for the memory of my husband, Mark, standing with his Dad, his best man, at the front of the church, as I walked down the aisle with my Dad. These were the very first moments, the beginning of our Marriage. I can see Mark standing there so clearly, his face beautiful, full of love and optimism. I am grateful for Mark, and cherish the memory of the day we began our marriage.

  11. Patti
    sunnypatti
    1 week ago

    There are many! But today, I choose the moment when I woke up in the middle of the night in my previous life (previous marriage) and remembered that a friend of mine was about to get a new roommate. I sent her a text and told her to tell the person they couldn’t move in, that I needed that room. It was just in time because she hadn’t taken any money from that person. I deleted the text since my ex constantly went thru my phone and moved out 2 weeks later. Thus began me taking over my life!

    1. D
      Drea
      1 week ago

      Glad you got out of a bad situation and into an exponentially better one! Also, what a good friend.

      1. Patti
        sunnypatti
        1 week ago

        Yes, it was time. While it wasn’t fun living with my friend, I am ever so grateful that she allowed me to live there for the time that I did.

  12. J
    John
    1 week ago

    While vacationing in Door Co. WI, my wife and I took our bikes to the ferry to Washington Island. The day was sunny, and about 70 degrees, and we spent the next couple of hours riding around the perimeter of the island, stopping here and there to look at the water, or at rocks or the shoreline or the farms and fields. So relaxing!

    1. Yram
      Yram
      1 week ago

      That is a beautiful part of my state. I hope it was not a one time experience.

  13. Carol Ann Conner
    Carol
    1 week ago

    In 1995 when my dear friend Linda took me in and said, “This is your home for as long as you need it.”

    1. Antoinette88615
      Antoinette
      1 week ago

      How kind Carol . 💓

  14. D
    Dawn Elaine Bowie
    1 week ago

    Being held by my mother.

    1. Mary
      Mary
      1 week ago

      ♥️

  15. Avril
    Avril
    1 week ago

    I am grateful for my memory of my first date with my husband Jon. We met at a coffee shop and his first words were “you actually look like your picture.” I cracked up and we got our drinks and talked in the park for four hours. We got engaged 8 weeks later.

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