How can I know that? I think there is an infinite amount that I cannot see now, almost everything, if not everything.
Maybe even what I am looking for? Maybe I’m overlooking it because I’m looking.
More peace and tranquil moments. Lately time seems to be flying by so I would like to slow down and take time out to smell the roses (Beach roses preferably) before the summer flies by
The joy and contentment of the present. Searching the past and the future is fruitless. Life and time are always in the now. Open my eyes and see the beauty around me in this present moment, not good or bad times in the past or expectations and/or dread about the future
Ironically, I have to answer this question in the past tense. In my 20s and 30s I always had this idea that I would be happier if I could just move to a different city – I did that about 6 or 7 times. Looking back now, even though a lot of those places might not have been right for me, I spent far too much time thinking about where I was going to move next, instead of trying to experience and appreciate where I was at in that given moment. It all boils down to missing one thing – the present.
It’s time. I might be missing times to have more fun, enjoyment, and meaningful experiences when I’m busy searching for something else. Eventually, I’ve taught myself that if the things I wish for haven’t happened yet, it might not be the right time for them. It’s not beach weather right now, so why not watch a movie with my family on TV?
Have a dry, rainy day from Minnesota, everyone!
The other day I thought of adding something to my schedule. But I decided to list all I do, what really nourishes me and what can I fully enjoy instead of adding. My question was “Do I need to add or subtract?”
“Stop the World. I want to get off.” is a popular musical that I think was on Broadway in the 1950’s or 60’s and for me there is a lot of wisdom in its message. I have spent most of my life searching and seeking instead of pausing and seeing. A wise friend of mine from India use to say that “We have to visit the world to survive but we should not live there.” In recent weeks, caring for my ill sister, housing her when she was not in the hospital, providing lodging and meals for visiting relatives has not left much time for pausing. Thankfully, my sister passed away peacefully yesterday afternoon surrounded by her loved ones and hospice personnel. When she could no longer speak to us but we could tell she could still hear, we played music that she loved for her–a hymn she loved and the Beatles “Let it Be” sung by Paul McCartney. As a teenager, she had been a big Beatles fan. It was obvious the music was calming her and allowing her to just let go. Though her breath became shallow, she took her last breath without effort. A peaceful energy emanated from her body. It was a privilege to be present.
I am sorry for the loss of your dear sister, Carol, and at the same time I bow to you, for the way you gave her comfort.
May she rest in peace, and may you find strength in these days. I know you can.
Carol, my deepest condolences to you on the loss of your dear sister. My mom loved the Beatles too and I have “Let it Be” on my fridge too. We played The Beatles and Elvis Presley while my mom was on Hospice at my brother’s house. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Carol, what a thoughtful, beautiful departure as you and loved ones witnessed your sisters passing. You eased her way. You will miss her and she you. Blessings on you and all her love her.
I’m so sorry, Carol, that your sister passed.
How beautiful though that you and your family were with her,
and able to comfort her with her much loved music.
I hope you are comforted, Carol,
by the way you brought her into your home in this delicate time
and by the way you and your family helped her to have a gentle and peaceful passing.
Sending love.
My heart is with you, dear Carol and peace may be with her, with you and all your family. It is soothing to know she could let go peacefully and had the joy and support of this beautiful song while passing. So good that you could share this most precious and holy moment with your beloved sister. May you all be blessed.
I’m sorry for your loss but you described such a loving and peaceful atmosphere that fills my heart with serenity. Love is the best travel companion and I’m sure your sister has felt it all the way. I send you a hug from Italy, there is beautiful weather here today and I want to dedicate it to you and your loved ones!
I don’t know what to say… Just know that we’re here for you, Carol! We will all pass on eventually, but love and memories will remain in the hearts of our loved ones just like your sister is always with you and your family in love and memorible moments.
Carol, my heart goes out to you and your family. She was surrounded by the love you gave her. I wish you peace now also. As RR would say, let the tears flow.
I so agree with everyone’s responses, which I read first this morning before responding myself. Giving myself over entirely to what is may provide an opening I couldn’t see coming otherwise. That opening may come as a conversation, a creative idea, a sunset, that voice inside each of us, or maybe silence. I am going to think of us as a collective today around this idea/question, and feel the energy and support that comes from your thoughtfulness. Thank you each.🌺
I have a penchant for “the next thing”—especially concerning my career. I had a non-traditional trajectory to my current work, and sometimes I feel like I got here “too late” and “maybe I should be in higher role.” I can feel mired with inadequacy—there is so much to unpack. But, as I spend more time in this space, doing my sadhana (my spiritual practices), and with my teachers (especially Ma Tripura), I realize/remember I am where I should be precisely. I reflect on the myriad blessings as I breathe and type these words. I emote deep gratitude because I’ve found what I am looking for: me.
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How can I know that? I think there is an infinite amount that I cannot see now, almost everything, if not everything.
Maybe even what I am looking for? Maybe I’m overlooking it because I’m looking.
Nothing else than echoing also Kevin and Carla,” the present” then right here right now.
More peace and tranquil moments. Lately time seems to be flying by so I would like to slow down and take time out to smell the roses (Beach roses preferably) before the summer flies by
Great idea, Robin. The summer months fly. Not only do the cold months feel long, it also gets dark pretty quickly starting in September.
The joy and contentment of the present. Searching the past and the future is fruitless. Life and time are always in the now. Open my eyes and see the beauty around me in this present moment, not good or bad times in the past or expectations and/or dread about the future
Joseph, agree. Time doesn’t exist.
I don’t know, which is why I’d need to stop searching and pay attention where and when I am.
I echo Kevin, “the present,” and all that I behold right here and now.
Ironically, I have to answer this question in the past tense. In my 20s and 30s I always had this idea that I would be happier if I could just move to a different city – I did that about 6 or 7 times. Looking back now, even though a lot of those places might not have been right for me, I spent far too much time thinking about where I was going to move next, instead of trying to experience and appreciate where I was at in that given moment. It all boils down to missing one thing – the present.
The present!
It’s time. I might be missing times to have more fun, enjoyment, and meaningful experiences when I’m busy searching for something else. Eventually, I’ve taught myself that if the things I wish for haven’t happened yet, it might not be the right time for them. It’s not beach weather right now, so why not watch a movie with my family on TV?
Have a dry, rainy day from Minnesota, everyone!
My Ngoc, the rain came and gone. It’s closer to beach weather this weekend but a little cold for that.
The other day I thought of adding something to my schedule. But I decided to list all I do, what really nourishes me and what can I fully enjoy instead of adding. My question was “Do I need to add or subtract?”
Such a great question!
“Stop the World. I want to get off.” is a popular musical that I think was on Broadway in the 1950’s or 60’s and for me there is a lot of wisdom in its message. I have spent most of my life searching and seeking instead of pausing and seeing. A wise friend of mine from India use to say that “We have to visit the world to survive but we should not live there.” In recent weeks, caring for my ill sister, housing her when she was not in the hospital, providing lodging and meals for visiting relatives has not left much time for pausing. Thankfully, my sister passed away peacefully yesterday afternoon surrounded by her loved ones and hospice personnel. When she could no longer speak to us but we could tell she could still hear, we played music that she loved for her–a hymn she loved and the Beatles “Let it Be” sung by Paul McCartney. As a teenager, she had been a big Beatles fan. It was obvious the music was calming her and allowing her to just let go. Though her breath became shallow, she took her last breath without effort. A peaceful energy emanated from her body. It was a privilege to be present.
I am sorry for the loss of your dear sister, Carol, and at the same time I bow to you, for the way you gave her comfort.
May she rest in peace, and may you find strength in these days. I know you can.
Carol, my deepest condolences to you on the loss of your dear sister. My mom loved the Beatles too and I have “Let it Be” on my fridge too. We played The Beatles and Elvis Presley while my mom was on Hospice at my brother’s house. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Carol, what a thoughtful, beautiful departure as you and loved ones witnessed your sisters passing. You eased her way. You will miss her and she you. Blessings on you and all her love her.
Carol, love and light. What an auspicious transition for your sister. It is a gift you were able to care for her.
I’m so sorry, Carol, that your sister passed.
How beautiful though that you and your family were with her,
and able to comfort her with her much loved music.
I hope you are comforted, Carol,
by the way you brought her into your home in this delicate time
and by the way you and your family helped her to have a gentle and peaceful passing.
Sending love.
May you rest in peace, Sister of Carol.
My heart is with you, dear Carol and peace may be with her, with you and all your family. It is soothing to know she could let go peacefully and had the joy and support of this beautiful song while passing. So good that you could share this most precious and holy moment with your beloved sister. May you all be blessed.
Carol, I’m so sorry for your loss but glad you were able to spend time and give her much comfort in her last days.
Much love to you, Carol, and all of those who loved your sister 🙏🏼
I’m glad she can be at peace and that you were there. It is a powerful moment to witness as we move into the memories of those who loved us.
Carol, sending you loving care and deepest condolences. Thank you for sharing a beautiful message during this time of grief and loss.
I’m sorry for your loss but you described such a loving and peaceful atmosphere that fills my heart with serenity. Love is the best travel companion and I’m sure your sister has felt it all the way. I send you a hug from Italy, there is beautiful weather here today and I want to dedicate it to you and your loved ones!
I don’t know what to say… Just know that we’re here for you, Carol! We will all pass on eventually, but love and memories will remain in the hearts of our loved ones just like your sister is always with you and your family in love and memorible moments.
Carol, my heart goes out to you and your family. She was surrounded by the love you gave her. I wish you peace now also. As RR would say, let the tears flow.
I so agree with everyone’s responses, which I read first this morning before responding myself. Giving myself over entirely to what is may provide an opening I couldn’t see coming otherwise. That opening may come as a conversation, a creative idea, a sunset, that voice inside each of us, or maybe silence. I am going to think of us as a collective today around this idea/question, and feel the energy and support that comes from your thoughtfulness. Thank you each.🌺
I might be missing my actual life, the one that unfolds in front of me moment by moment.
I miss the beauty right in front of my eyes when I’m searching for something else. Everything I need is there.
I have a penchant for “the next thing”—especially concerning my career. I had a non-traditional trajectory to my current work, and sometimes I feel like I got here “too late” and “maybe I should be in higher role.” I can feel mired with inadequacy—there is so much to unpack. But, as I spend more time in this space, doing my sadhana (my spiritual practices), and with my teachers (especially Ma Tripura), I realize/remember I am where I should be precisely. I reflect on the myriad blessings as I breathe and type these words. I emote deep gratitude because I’ve found what I am looking for: me.
I always have these same feelings about my career. Thank you for the reminder that I am where I should be precisely.
You are welcome
“I’ve found what I am looking for: me”
That’s so powerful!!!
Beautifully said.