My first reaction to today’s question was “I try to do that everyday.” I think when you put the practice of gratefulness in your daily life, kindness comes naturally. Richard Rohr’s meditation today is a true story about Bishop Tutu of South Africa. It speaks of the power of the serpent and the power of the dove. Today’s quote tells us to become a prayer maker. That’s what we do when we practice gratefulness. Everything becomes a prayer. Hope you will take time to read the story about Bishop Tutu at the link below. https://cac.org/daily-meditations/serpent-wisdom-dove-power/
My mother in law died at 89 in late March. My wife, the oldest of her 6 kids, is the executor of the estate. We were in Ohio to help get the process started. The kids all get on with each other quite well, so in that regard it was pretty painless.
On our way home my wife had to take some time to shed tears just as we pulled away.
Now, home in Phoenix, we talk about her mom a lot.
A couple days ago, when I asked a question about her Mom again, the tears came, and through them she replied: “I think about her every day.”
I’ve been looking for ways to comfort her almost every day.
I’ll keep today simple, and smile more. I’m in a training and can be more of a listener than a take-charger. Remembering those who lost their lives with 9/11 and those who sacrificed their lives in the war(s) that followed. ☮️🇺🇸
I always try to make kindness a priority. Especially when I’m feeling overwhelmed. Today I am up at 4am to do a favor for my boss. Not really much of a kindness, I mean, I am getting paid. 😁
I am in touch daily, with friends that are suffering, and I hope that my support is helping in some way.
I will be in the lookout for opportunities to “pay it forward” today.
This reminds me of the ritual I’ve read about, where monks go around the neighborhood with their bowls, looking for offerings of some rice or other sustenance. They believe they are giving the community a chance to start their day with a good deed. It’s such a different way to think about life. Even receiving a kindness can be an offering.
An old friend in Charleston is meeting me at the beach this morning and letting me borrow a surfboard. I will pay it forward with everyone I encounter, sharing joy and gratitude. I will also buy her coffee and/or breakfast after.
Its our last full day down here, and I’m so excited to get on the waves again 🌊
Dieng, acknowledging those who have helped me with kindness is something I’m continuing to work on. The only way we can give is to be able to receive as talked about from the question on receiving which I’ve talked about setting agendas and string-pulling aside.
Continue with what I do when I go to town. Smile, make eye contact, greet, converse (especially children), hold a door open, call service folks by their name if visible or ask them their name, if not. Strangers and acquaintances alike. Kindness. Better than a dose on vinegar! Peace and love.
Today I’m picking apples off my tree and giving the abundance of harvest to friends- neighbors! Love to give away what I have as much as possible! Maybe I’ll bake a cake and give it to my neighbors! Lovely day to pick apples 🍎! Happy day everyone!
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My first reaction to today’s question was “I try to do that everyday.” I think when you put the practice of gratefulness in your daily life, kindness comes naturally. Richard Rohr’s meditation today is a true story about Bishop Tutu of South Africa. It speaks of the power of the serpent and the power of the dove. Today’s quote tells us to become a prayer maker. That’s what we do when we practice gratefulness. Everything becomes a prayer. Hope you will take time to read the story about Bishop Tutu at the link below.
https://cac.org/daily-meditations/serpent-wisdom-dove-power/
Give words of encouragement and/or praise to a family member, friend, or colleague
Check in with a few folks who have recently had COVID.
I intend to make bran muffins. I will share with others
In traffic, let people in.
My mother in law died at 89 in late March. My wife, the oldest of her 6 kids, is the executor of the estate. We were in Ohio to help get the process started. The kids all get on with each other quite well, so in that regard it was pretty painless.
On our way home my wife had to take some time to shed tears just as we pulled away.
Now, home in Phoenix, we talk about her mom a lot.
A couple days ago, when I asked a question about her Mom again, the tears came, and through them she replied: “I think about her every day.”
I’ve been looking for ways to comfort her almost every day.
John, RIP to her. It sounds like she lived a long productive life.
I’ll keep today simple, and smile more. I’m in a training and can be more of a listener than a take-charger. Remembering those who lost their lives with 9/11 and those who sacrificed their lives in the war(s) that followed. ☮️🇺🇸
Even during my “gossiping” time, I try to minimize saying negative things about others as much as possible.
My Ngoc, it’s the best we can do. We’re also full of shit too like everyone to a varying degree.
I always try to make kindness a priority. Especially when I’m feeling overwhelmed. Today I am up at 4am to do a favor for my boss. Not really much of a kindness, I mean, I am getting paid. 😁
I am in touch daily, with friends that are suffering, and I hope that my support is helping in some way.
I will be in the lookout for opportunities to “pay it forward” today.
This reminds me of the ritual I’ve read about, where monks go around the neighborhood with their bowls, looking for offerings of some rice or other sustenance. They believe they are giving the community a chance to start their day with a good deed. It’s such a different way to think about life. Even receiving a kindness can be an offering.
Thanks for the reminder, Charlie.
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An old friend in Charleston is meeting me at the beach this morning and letting me borrow a surfboard. I will pay it forward with everyone I encounter, sharing joy and gratitude. I will also buy her coffee and/or breakfast after.
Its our last full day down here, and I’m so excited to get on the waves again 🌊
Have a great day, everyone!
Everything others have said- smile, acknowledge those that help me with kindness, remember those lost on 9/11.
Dieng, acknowledging those who have helped me with kindness is something I’m continuing to work on. The only way we can give is to be able to receive as talked about from the question on receiving which I’ve talked about setting agendas and string-pulling aside.
smile 🙂
Continue with what I do when I go to town. Smile, make eye contact, greet, converse (especially children), hold a door open, call service folks by their name if visible or ask them their name, if not. Strangers and acquaintances alike. Kindness. Better than a dose on vinegar! Peace and love.
Today I’m picking apples off my tree and giving the abundance of harvest to friends- neighbors! Love to give away what I have as much as possible! Maybe I’ll bake a cake and give it to my neighbors! Lovely day to pick apples 🍎! Happy day everyone!
Antoinette, that cake sounds delicious.
Trying to cut back on indulging right now, maybe saving it for the weekend! ☺️
Gotta love, enjoy and take care of what nourishment our home earth produces for us. Happy picking Antoinette.
🙏 just got the last one picked now ! Gave away three huge buckets full of apples 🍎! Happy day ! 😊
Just give a warm smile to a complete stranger.
EJP 🤩