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  1. sparrow51014
    sparrow
    5 days ago

    Ever since I can remember
    I have been imagining
    how the world around me would look
    if I had never seen it before.
    In my idle hours
    I choose something–
    anything . . .
    a teapot,
    a squirrel,
    a house or a kite,
    a stone,
    a car,
    a painting on the wall . . .
    a book with words written in it
    or a sheaf of paper with music composed in it.

    I imagine
    that I am from another planet
    or have lived my whole life
    deep within a jungle
    or high upon an undiscovered mountaintop,
    and I am always amazed,
    sometimes puzzled,
    and often amused,
    wondering how I would interpret these strange objects.
    Would I recognize any kinship at all
    with any of them?
    Well,
    maybe the squirrel.

    We humans,
    have created meaning
    around the ‘things’ in our lives . . .
    we need or want something
    and create what fills that desire.
    Our creativity
    is a marvelous thing
    and yet it has led us astray
    as well.

    I enjoy
    looking at it all from the outside,
    turning that teapot over in my hands,
    trying to imagine
    how this contraption came to be
    and what purpose it could possibly serve.
    And what about a mouse trap?
    Whatever would I use
    it for
    if I had no knowledge of mice
    or the thoughts that went into the trap’s invention?

    It’s fun.
    It’s enlightening.
    It makes me think.

    Possibility is endless. ♥

    1. D
      Drea
      4 days ago

      What a delightful practice, Sparrow. I’m inspired to try it myself.

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        4 days ago

        I don’t know what got me started,
        dear Drea,
        but I’ve been doing it all my life . . .
        it is like
        sort of a game with myself. 🙂

    2. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      5 days ago

      “Well,
      maybe the squirrel.”

      Love this dear Sparrow. Thanks

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        5 days ago

        🙂

  2. Charlie T
    Charlie T
    5 days ago

    I would love to look at things as if for the first time.
    But I find this to be basically impossible.
    It would be great if I could, but once I’ve seen something, I can’t unsee it. It’s now etched into my memory. Part of the sedimentary layers that make up who I am. Maybe there is a technique I’m not aware of. A trick of the mind. It’s like looking at your own face, you have no idea what you look like any more. My mother, who was a trained artist, would look at a painting she was working on, in a mirror, to see it backwards and help her see things that she couldn’t see anymore, after looking at it for so long.
    She could kind of see it new again. I know that when I’m editing videos, I will see things the next day that I couldn’t see at the end of the day before. And even then, when I send it off to my partner, he will see things that I missed. Because, of course, he’s seeing it for the first time. Now, having said all of this, I was just in Hawaii with my wife. It was her first time being there, and I got to see it through her eyes. That was a nice experience.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      Seeing the world
      through someone else’s eyes,
      dear Charlie,
      is such an enriching thing,
      as I think you discovered
      on your vacation in Hawaii with your wife.
      Her presence
      gave you the gift
      of looking at the world a different way . . .
      I am happy for you. ♥

  3. Carol Ann Conner
    Carol Ann Conner
    5 days ago

    My poinsettia bush…I’ve been observing it for 7 years and this year the blossoms seem brighter and fuller. It takes my breath away. I wish my Mom could see it. She loved poinsettias.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      I’ve never had a poinsettia last that long,
      dear Carol Ann . . .
      you must have and amazing thumb. ♥

  4. Kathy29496
    Katrina
    5 days ago

    I am going to an art class today for the first time – new craft, new people, new adventure. I’m looking forward to it as it’s been a long time since I’ve done something for the first time. I realize this doesn’t really answer the question, but I was really stumped about trying to see something for the first time. Right now, everything is carrying so much baggage for me…I’m just having to actually do something new.

    1. Carol Ann Conner
      Carol Ann Conner
      5 days ago

      Katrina, Good for you! Have fun…no need to perform.

  5. Ngoc Nguyen
    Ngoc Nguyen
    5 days ago

    I have a really cute pink roly-poly on my desk. I love how it looks and the message of resiliency it brings to me. For this kind of doll that doesn’t fall no matter how much I push it.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      Your description
      reminds me of a toy that was made some years ago
      called a ‘weeble’,
      dear Ngoc . . .
      the jingle that was used in their advertising campaign was,
      “Weebles wobble,
      but they don’t fall down.” 🙂

      1. Michele
        Michele
        4 days ago
        1. sparrow51014
          sparrow
          4 days ago

          Yes!

      2. Joseph
        Joseph McCann
        5 days ago

        Weeble Wobbler’s . . . . memory jog!

    2. L
      Loc Tran
      5 days ago

      My Ngoc, I remember pushing that roly poley before. It just gets back up.

  6. D
    Drea
    5 days ago

    My own willingness to tolerate certain behaviors from others, and what leads me to do so. That’s the benefit of a relationship shock, you get to see things as though for the first time. I had been brushing off a few of my friend’s behaviors without acknowledging them as destructive. Our conflict caught me by surprise in the moment … but he’d behaved similarly with other people. I thought I was immune. The tide of conflict pulled back, I can see my own patterns in a new and visceral way.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      That’s wonderful,
      dear Drea . . .
      you are finding the diamond
      and looking at the conflict
      in new ways. ♥

  7. L
    Loc Tran
    5 days ago

    Today is my Midwest Special Services performing for people with disabilities from 10am-noon and 2pm-5pm Menards piano shift respectively. This new Menards piano schedule brings me closer to how I saw piano when I first started at 7 years old. Even if I may not like the enthusiasm that comes with it, I at least enjoy what I do.

    1. D
      Drea
      5 days ago

      Loc, is it the enthusiasm of the audience, or of the music that you don’t like?

      1. L
        Loc Tran
        5 days ago

        Drea, it’s the enthusiasm of the people I find overwhelming. The more talented we are, it’s expected that we attract more of it. I naturally respond better to calmer energy as a calm person.

        1. D
          Drea
          4 days ago

          Got it, Loc. I hope you found joy in the performances regardless.

  8. Patti
    sunnypatti
    5 days ago

    An asana.
    I just purchased a book, The Stories Behind the Poses by Dr. Raj Balkaran, and it has the Indian mythology that inspired 50 yoga asanas. I look forward to reading about all of them, but will choose one today and share the story with my students this week.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      That’s a wonderful idea,
      of bringing stories about the poses,
      dear SunnyPatti,
      to your classes. ♥

  9. Avril
    Avril
    5 days ago

    My teen daughter. She and I had a challenging 24 hours. I’m trying to connect. It can be a practice.

    1. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      5 days ago

      Adolescence. Enough said. 🙏

      1. sparrow51014
        sparrow
        4 days ago

        🙂

    2. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      My thoughts are with you,
      dear Avril . . .
      these are tough years
      for both parents and teens. ♥

    3. Kathy29496
      Katrina
      5 days ago

      I like your idea that “It can be a practice.” So many creative and helpful ways to interpret that.

    4. D
      Drea
      5 days ago

      Wishing you luck and endurance, Avril.

  10. Michele
    Michele
    5 days ago

    I’ve been working in the Tissue and Organ field for over 5.5 yrs now. I came across the following article in goodnewsnetwork and had no idea that hand transplants were possible. Learn something new everyday 🙂

    https://www.goodnewsnetwork.org/mom-has-emotional-meeting-with-transplant-recipient-who-received-her-daughters-hand/

    Happy Monday ya’ll 🙂

    1. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      5 days ago

      Likewise Michele!

    2. D
      Drea
      5 days ago

      Wow, I’m impressed. Hands are so intricate, detailed, and frankly finicky–amazing that people figured out how to transplant one.

  11. Ose
    Ose
    5 days ago

    The realization that I haven’t made anything of the inherent, multifaceted creative potential. As if that potential were already the same as its realization. Quite a presumption, I would say today. Creativity and out of this quite some support and to the benefit of others was able to flourish to some extent in my profession, but everything else lies fallow. A rather sad and also shattering realization today.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      It doesn’t have to be sad,
      dear Ose . . .
      each day is a new beginning,
      but I think you know that.
      Now that you’ve realized,
      you can open the door
      to that new beginning. ♥

    2. D
      Drea
      5 days ago

      It’s never too late to start, dear Ose. That fallow soil will grow things. I got into music again after not touching it since childhood, and it’s messy, but I’m loving it. I’m sure that is true for all creative pursuits.

  12. Antoinette88615
    Antoinette
    5 days ago

    This very moment is new and fresh. Aeschylus moment is an opportunity to open up and let go. The more I meditate using the method the more I’m able to let go and embrace the here and now freely with no minds about past of future. This is a True blessing. I’m by no means a finished product- I keep seeing the minds or thought bubbles 🫧 and use the method to let them go. Five years have passed already since I was introduced to this method and I have never once regretted a second that I chose to take action! Thank you so much for giving me the key . 🔑 I’m so humbled and grateful to the universe magic.

  13. Joseph
    Joseph McCann
    6 days ago

    Not a what, a who. I can look at my lovely wife Cheryl as I did many moons ago. I feel I still do, at times. This question is a reminder to see her, as the first time, more often. Peace, Love & Light.

    1. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      How beautiful and loving
      is this,
      dear Joseph.
      Your lovely wife Cheryl
      is indeed very fortunate,
      as are you. ♥

  14. Carla
    Carla
    6 days ago

    I can choose to see my drive to work in the morning with new eyes. Noticing the intricacies of how the Light Rail Tracks (LRT) are laid side by side with human care, like lattice woven on a garden gate. Seeing with care and concern the many homeless dotting the bikeway along Hiawatha Ave as I drive downtown. Their colorful tents and tarps popping up like spring tulips; knowing it could easily be me living on that edge. Continuing my drive I see the montage of buildings standing with sequoia pride, some over a hundred years old, others mere novices pretending to be sentinels. . More importantly seeing all of us humans along the way with compassion. We’re wonderfully made creatures by the Divine, each doing the best that we can as we mimic scurrying ants, locusts, crickets, and spiders to our respective hives of habitation for our day’s activities. Blessings to all this Monday, as many begin a new work week. May we all be led to be peacemakers in our communities. Namaste. ☮️

    1. Barb C
      Barb C
      4 days ago

      Thank you for driving with care and attention, Carla, and for sharing all you see.

    2. sparrow51014
      sparrow
      5 days ago

      What a wonderful vignette you have created,
      dear Carla!
      I feel
      that I am looking at a painting,
      and can see along with you
      everything you look upon
      on your drive to work . . .
      you are an artist. ♥

    3. D
      Drea
      5 days ago

      Thank you Carla. A beautiful reflection.

    4. Joseph
      Joseph McCann
      6 days ago

      🙏 dear Carla.

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