If I give my full attention to everyone I encounter today, I might learn a lot from other beings in a wide spectrum of ways and accept the moment for what it is and connect with the beings and the environment. I will be able to use all my senses effectively and efficiently which I am trying to use daily. My physical, mental, emotional and spiritual being might undergo a spectrum of feelings from joy to sadness, elated to exhaustion …. “My wish, indeed, my continuing passion, would be not to point the finger in judgment but to part a curtain, that invisible shadow that falls between people, the veil of indifference to each other’s presence, each other’s wonder, each other’s human plight.” Eudora Welty
I actually considered this in yesterday’s question, but this is good to make me rethink this. At church today, we discussed noticing those in need around us. I am slowly but surely doing some decluttering and replacing items that I no longer use and keep trying to gift to others directly or through Give away free groups or just donating. But also making sure I am earth friendly. I just dumped a bunch of cardboard and glass into recycling. What does this have to do to my full attention. Less stuff to take care of means more time for the people in my life.
Usually everyone I meet in person gets my full attention, and usually I meet a lot of people every day, listening deeply to their needs, problems or just being together with friends, listening attentive and caring when required. This is at least the feed back of people who know me well. For today, I am happy to be back home after having met several of dear friends and kindred hearts, hoping to find some rest now and to fall asleep soon. May all who share and who visit here have a sound sleep tonight and wake up refreshed to meet another beautiful day.
My son came this morning. We had a disagreement and I realized I was trying to change his mind. I apologized and so did he. He is the only person I’ve seen today.
Just read Richard Rohr’s meditation and it affirmed what I have sensed for years.If you are Christian, the NT story of the angel’s visit to Mary, whether myth or fact,is a reminder that we are all called to be Mary. To say YES in our time. It always comes down to willingness! https://cac.org/daily-meditations/trust-in-god/
Storms are moving in so I need to get off the computer.
Well, I usually try to be present in my encounters with others. And when I can get that level of attention, I get the sense of connection.
And I think I’m programmed for connection.
It’s something that feeds me. Without it, I feel very lost and…well, unconnected.
Happy Sunday. Hope you all find some joy on this day. 🙏
Now that I’m retired, I have less people to attend to for which I’m thankful. It’s lovely thinking about the adults and children in my neighborhood that I’ll see today as I’m out walking or in my yard. I feel more connected when I’m building relationships with these neighbors. I’m so thankful for this neighborhood that I’ve lived in for 26 years that I can finally pay my full attention to. Everyone has known my 14 year old cat’s name as he goes visiting along the block but not always my name. As the cat and I were walking together yesterday, one of the kids, who usually goes straight to my cat, called me by name first. Savoring deepening connection,. the little interactions over time that go from seeing to knowing each other.
I expect to spend the day at home working around the yard and doing some cooking so I’m less likely to encounter people today than yesterday. If I do encounter people on a walk, giving them my full attention will lift me out of my inner self and remind me to connect with the world around me. I may get a chance to meet our newest neighbors who moved in a week or so ago..
Thinking about yesterday’s encounters, I can say that giving full attention to everyone I encounter includes the unhoused people who wait by the mission for it to open. When I go downtown I ride my bike past that location. I always try to make eye contact so I can smile and give a friendly nod to the people who are walking slowly across the street. I imagine that most people try to ignore their presence as an uncomfortable reminder that not everyone is doing okay. In that moment I’m very aware of my good fortune and how deeply our capitalist economy has failed so many. That’s why I make a monthly donation to our food bank.
Today’s quotation spoke to this so well.
My wish, indeed my continuing passion, would be not to point the finger in judgment but to part a curtain, that invisible shadow that falls between people, the veil of indifference to each other’s presence, each other’s wonder, each other’s human plight.
When I give my full attention to anyone I encounter today, my perception shifts. It is not about my desire to be understood, but about opening my mind to understand the perspective of the person I am speaking to. Happy Sunday to all! 💐
My Ngoc, the only one who understands us the most is god. He understands us even better than ourselves. It takes many people to understand an individual. It’s why he put people into our lives he knows who are best for us along our journey at different points.
I’m leading a Qi Gong workshop today. The question is poignant for my lived experience. I will now intentionalize giving each participant full attention via deep listening and being aware of how my assumptions inhibit my full presence. I don’t know any of thregistrants and that’s kind of nice—I can’t assume their level of ability. I am excited to experiement and see how open and focused I can be. What a lovely laboratory! I have know idea what will come—that’s the fun part.
Totally agree, Sunnypatti. AIs are meant to be used as stop gaps. Nothing will ever replace human interactions. God created humans to need and be there for each other.
There may be more smiles among the beings I encounter. I know I feel seen and contented when I am given full attention by others.
Peace, Love & Light. May all receive enough attention on this gift of a new day. Not an ordinary day but an extra ordinary day. Namaste.
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If I give my full attention to everyone I encounter today, I might learn a lot from other beings in a wide spectrum of ways and accept the moment for what it is and connect with the beings and the environment. I will be able to use all my senses effectively and efficiently which I am trying to use daily. My physical, mental, emotional and spiritual being might undergo a spectrum of feelings from joy to sadness, elated to exhaustion …. “My wish, indeed, my continuing passion, would be not to point the finger in judgment but to part a curtain, that invisible shadow that falls between people, the veil of indifference to each other’s presence, each other’s wonder, each other’s human plight.” Eudora Welty
I actually considered this in yesterday’s question, but this is good to make me rethink this. At church today, we discussed noticing those in need around us. I am slowly but surely doing some decluttering and replacing items that I no longer use and keep trying to gift to others directly or through Give away free groups or just donating. But also making sure I am earth friendly. I just dumped a bunch of cardboard and glass into recycling. What does this have to do to my full attention. Less stuff to take care of means more time for the people in my life.
Usually everyone I meet in person gets my full attention, and usually I meet a lot of people every day, listening deeply to their needs, problems or just being together with friends, listening attentive and caring when required. This is at least the feed back of people who know me well. For today, I am happy to be back home after having met several of dear friends and kindred hearts, hoping to find some rest now and to fall asleep soon. May all who share and who visit here have a sound sleep tonight and wake up refreshed to meet another beautiful day.
What beautiful gifts,
dear Ose,
you give to the people you come in contact with . . .
your presence here
is always a delight
and a store of wisdom. ♥
My son came this morning. We had a disagreement and I realized I was trying to change his mind. I apologized and so did he. He is the only person I’ve seen today.
Just read Richard Rohr’s meditation and it affirmed what I have sensed for years.If you are Christian, the NT story of the angel’s visit to Mary, whether myth or fact,is a reminder that we are all called to be Mary. To say YES in our time. It always comes down to willingness!
https://cac.org/daily-meditations/trust-in-god/
Storms are moving in so I need to get off the computer.
Well, I usually try to be present in my encounters with others. And when I can get that level of attention, I get the sense of connection.
And I think I’m programmed for connection.
It’s something that feeds me. Without it, I feel very lost and…well, unconnected.
Happy Sunday. Hope you all find some joy on this day. 🙏
And I hope we all find enough on this day!
Joy to you this day too,
dear Charlie . . . ♥
Now that I’m retired, I have less people to attend to for which I’m thankful. It’s lovely thinking about the adults and children in my neighborhood that I’ll see today as I’m out walking or in my yard. I feel more connected when I’m building relationships with these neighbors. I’m so thankful for this neighborhood that I’ve lived in for 26 years that I can finally pay my full attention to. Everyone has known my 14 year old cat’s name as he goes visiting along the block but not always my name. As the cat and I were walking together yesterday, one of the kids, who usually goes straight to my cat, called me by name first. Savoring deepening connection,. the little interactions over time that go from seeing to knowing each other.
Your cat,
dear Barb,
is certainly a very good ambassador! 🙂
I expect to spend the day at home working around the yard and doing some cooking so I’m less likely to encounter people today than yesterday. If I do encounter people on a walk, giving them my full attention will lift me out of my inner self and remind me to connect with the world around me. I may get a chance to meet our newest neighbors who moved in a week or so ago..
Thinking about yesterday’s encounters, I can say that giving full attention to everyone I encounter includes the unhoused people who wait by the mission for it to open. When I go downtown I ride my bike past that location. I always try to make eye contact so I can smile and give a friendly nod to the people who are walking slowly across the street. I imagine that most people try to ignore their presence as an uncomfortable reminder that not everyone is doing okay. In that moment I’m very aware of my good fortune and how deeply our capitalist economy has failed so many. That’s why I make a monthly donation to our food bank.
Today’s quotation spoke to this so well.
My wish, indeed my continuing passion, would be not to point the finger in judgment but to part a curtain, that invisible shadow that falls between people, the veil of indifference to each other’s presence, each other’s wonder, each other’s human plight.
— Eudora Welty
I appreciate hearing about what comes into view for you.
I believe a wholesome vibe emerges.
This can be for any day. I become closer to my root people.
Presence.
Happy Sunday Everyone.
https://nationaltoday.com/national-pretzel-day/ – love me some good ‘ol Philly pretzels! Thank God we have Wawa’s down here in Fl so I can still enjoy them.
I recall eating soft pretzels with mustard in McSherrystown, PA when I was little, some odd 63 or 64 years ago. Are Wawa’s soft pretzels, Michele?
yepper and the same as the Philly ones
When I give my full attention to anyone I encounter today, my perception shifts. It is not about my desire to be understood, but about opening my mind to understand the perspective of the person I am speaking to. Happy Sunday to all! 💐
My Ngoc, the only one who understands us the most is god. He understands us even better than ourselves. It takes many people to understand an individual. It’s why he put people into our lives he knows who are best for us along our journey at different points.
I’m leading a Qi Gong workshop today. The question is poignant for my lived experience. I will now intentionalize giving each participant full attention via deep listening and being aware of how my assumptions inhibit my full presence. I don’t know any of thregistrants and that’s kind of nice—I can’t assume their level of ability. I am excited to experiement and see how open and focused I can be. What a lovely laboratory! I have know idea what will come—that’s the fun part.
Wish I could attend your class! Have been wanting to learn Qi Gong.
True connection.
Totally agree, Sunnypatti. AIs are meant to be used as stop gaps. Nothing will ever replace human interactions. God created humans to need and be there for each other.
There may be more smiles among the beings I encounter. I know I feel seen and contented when I am given full attention by others.
Peace, Love & Light. May all receive enough attention on this gift of a new day. Not an ordinary day but an extra ordinary day. Namaste.
I’m sure there are,
dear Joseph . . .
you get many smiles from me
and I know from others too
who visit these pages . . . 🙂
My perspective will change as I learn from each and understand their “world” more clearly.