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  1. yourlady

    Life has two things: Miserable and bright. We all know that problems are part of our lives. Sometimes we think that being unhappy is the same as being alive. The majority of time , we only define our life when we faced with difficulties. That is why we believe that being alive is the issue.

    7 months ago
  2. Cathie

    I am not sure I would call the revelations divulged as truths, but life sometimes falls into place once you detach from the “shoulds.”
    An example is when we were moving to a new city and could not find a home to buy. Things were not working out. I wanted to get situated and kept trying to crowbar solutions to get us settled. I thought, “I know it shouldn’t be this hard!!!” Finally I gave up, and surrendered my desire to be settled quickly.
    A week later my hubby was transferred to another new location. If I had pushed or forced us into a home in the 1st new location, just to be settled quickly, it would have been much more to untangle and really more difficult get settled in the 2nd new location:)

    7 months ago
    1. Palm

      Thanks Cathy, for sharing your example/experience. Yes, we are often the obstacle preventing life “falling into place”

      7 months ago
      1. Cathie

        Lol-that can be so true:)

        7 months ago
        1. Palm

          Lol 😊

          7 months ago
  3. mam_gigi

    I think I do sometimes try to control situations or I expect certain outcomes and try to force them to happen, but I want to learn to love and welcome surprises. To take my time and savor the climb, rather than barrelling through to my intended destination. When I learn to lean on others rather than doggedly force things myself, I strengthen my bonds with others and learn to respect and hear their voices rather than forcing my own through the throng.

    7 months ago
  4. O.Christina

    Exercising to giving my reply before reading your comments now, I feel it then is revealed that whatever is meant to be will be, no matter my ideas, my wishes or longings. To trust that whatever course this life will take, there is no need to bother. To give away the desire to control allows life to unfold to its best, which might not necessarily be what I desire best… not easy for me to accept, but on a good way. Finding inside what the deepest longing is, may be expressing it, praying, and then let go. If it is in tune with His love, it will all be well, and if not yet- it will be well on its way back to the very source. Not a trace of a doubt about that, but sometimes, my fears, my will or desire to control made me stumble, while by now – and through having passed quite tough and very difficult times and having been dearly helped to finally come out of which for a long time felt like a deeply dark tunnel – being much more in the flow, much more happy and feeling quite vivid and alive. Not always, but much more often. Thank you for this beautiful question! And for you all being you.

    7 months ago
  5. Don Jones

    A person is not a person until they’re God. The wisdom of humanity, of our species, is that at your very centre, nearer to you than all else, where you are coming from, what you are looking out of, is not a product of the world but the Origin of the world, the Mystery, call it what you like – Atman-Brahman, or Buddha-Nature, Allah, God, Indwelling Christ, it has many names.

    7 months ago
  6. KC

    Antoinette, Thank you so much for your reflection. You have named so much for the messiness, discomfort and pain that arises for me as well, when I truly accept and surrender to how life is. I appreciate your prayer as well – please, truth, please make the false disappear…

    7 months ago
  7. devy

    Living in the present and accepting what is going on now no matter what happens prevents disappointments, what ifs or what might happen from entering the equation. We can’t change the past and often we can’t control what will happen especially when others are involved.

    7 months ago
  8. Hot Sauce

    When I let go of ideas about how life should be, I recognize that, even if some things are outside of my control, I can still find ways to be happy despite things not always going “my way.”

    7 months ago
  9. Hermann-Josef

    My experience as a nurse many times was that people didn’t ´t want to die, but didn’t accept life also. Our concepts of life rarely fit in what is. Saying no to given situations leads to more suffering. Saying yes to which is already there Leads to knowledge of myself. One truth might be that it is my responsibility how I see life.

    7 months ago
    1. KC

      Thank you Hermann-Josef, This is such a wise, helpful and challenging truth to accept. I appreciate your takeaway truth from people who did not want to die, yet were not able to accept life. “One truth is that it is my responsibility how I see life’. Yes – that resonates…

      7 months ago
    2. Carol

      Herman-Josef…thank you

      7 months ago
  10. Elaine

    Can’t do it. The status quo isn’t acceptable. I yearn for – and believe there “should be” – more justice , more equity, more respect, more appreciation of interconnectedness, more intelligence.

    7 months ago
    1. Michele

      I appreciate your perspective Elaine:)

      7 months ago
  11. Charlie T

    The truth that, being in the present and seeing things as they are, is the best place for me. It’s not easy to see without projection or judgment, or the “I wish…” syndrome. In fact, it’s impossible for me, but I attempt this every day.
    What’s is revealed is that there is beauty and kindness all around me.

    7 months ago
  12. dragonfly

    Life is as it should be. Nature is as it should be. Everything is as it should be. I am what I should be. And it is a “should” that is largely unknown to me and that takes care of itself. It just is. I don’t have to worry about what should be. It is best to just embrace and accept it and keep my peace.

    7 months ago
  13. Chester

    We can either focus on the few unfulfilled blessings that should have been, or “let go” and see the infinite number of fulfilled blessings and opportunities in any given day. Our choice.

    7 months ago
  14. Love Abundantly

    The truth that has been revealed to me is that much of my suffering I have inflicted upon myself.

    7 months ago
  15. Carol

    Ah-h-h! The “shackles of should.” Throughout my own life, I have found that self awareness, self truth, is hard to come by when I’m “shoulding.” After all, I came up in the era when Cinderella found Prince charming and they lived happily ever after. I’ve also learned that “shouldiing” makes me turn situations into problems. It plagues me with “Why me?” instead of “What can I learn from this?” It also colors how I see others and limits my ability to walk in their moccasins. I decided long ago that my definition of God’s will is that I be real and do my best to live and accept reality.It reminds me of the meme I saw years ago: “For every pile of sh-t!!! that comes my way, I shall make a daisy grow.” When I let go of the “shackles of should,” I find fertile soil. Makes me think of John Michael Talbot’s version of the song: “Holy Ground.” The greatest truth that forsaking the “shackles of should” has taught me is that Life is trustworthy when you let it be.

    7 months ago
    1. Love Abundantly

      Carol, you indeed have blessed me with your response. Just the perspective I need on this exact day. You said it plagues you with ” Why me?”. Today I let go of what I think ” should be”.

      7 months ago
      1. Carol

        One day at a time! For me, It’s much easier to let go when I relate to “What Is” that way.

        7 months ago
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