Mary, this reminds me of a longer post not to far back where I talked about some friends nicknaming me “Flu Game Loc” derived by Michael Jordan’s famous flu game in the 1997 finals where he dropped 38 points in 44 minutes against the Jazz willing his Bulls to a game 5 90-88 victory to take a 3-2 series lead. Not only can I be happy without going into flu-game mode, I feel more peaceful without it too. Flu game mode eventually leads to burnout sooner than later.
I can’t really point to one person. There have been a few people along the way that I have admired for their commitment to showing up and fully participating. It took me a long time, but I finally decided that, when I had the opportunity, I would
fully commit and participate. No sitting back. No waiting for others to start or say something.
I would be that person. I would raise my hand and go first. It’s just fear that was keeping me back. Fear of being judged or mis-judged or perceived as too eager and maybe the fear of being seen as uncool or inexperienced.
Me.
I inspire myself to be my most alive, authentic self.
There have been & are many influences that have motivated me & guided me to be the best version of myself.
My faith, family, friends, this site, the Universe all contribute to my showing up & being wonderful Me. 😊
Happy Saturday to All…🕊️🩷
Apossal Paul doesn’t talk about going to heaven one day. He inspires me to appreciate everything I have. We have everything at our disposal more than we realize. The problem is that we’re greedy for more.
Anyone who gives me a chance to do what I love most – resource for ideas or studies/books; teach/lead; listen/guide; tell stories; laugh; preach; sit with and listen to people who are different from me; dance; listen to fun music. Sometimes that’s me. Sometimes it’s God/(substitute your word here – I choose God), and sometimes it’s a friend, acquaintance, colleague or random person.
As Michele said, many inspire me. Most recently, a friend, spun out by his messy divorce, put me in the middle of a situation of his own creation. When I attempted an honest resolution, he disbelieved me and brushed me off. To believe one’s ego, to attack, then dismiss, to avoid responsibility and humility–these are deadening behaviors. If this man continues his trajectory, he’ll eventually embalm himself in his own defenses. Paradoxically, this motivates me to be more honest, imperfect, open, alive. To feel the pain, and to be open surrender. In the midst of relational conflict, someone else’s bad example can inspire me to be examine my own reactions, sharpen my discernment, and be strong.
“someone else’s bad example can inspire me to be examine my own reactions, sharpen my discernment, and be strong” – wise wisdom in that – I 100% agree, thank you Drea.
It’s true, Joseph. I gloss over that sometimes until it smacks me in the face. Maybe that’s a necessary condition of being alive–enjoy each moment as it comes, be present during the unpleasant ones too.
It works both ways,
doesn’t it,
dear Drea?
Thank you for pointing that out. ♥
ps. Perhaps your friend
will realize the truth of what happened between you . . .
perhaps not.
In any case,
I am happy that you saw the value in your response. (♥)
Thank you Sparrow. I need to keep focusing on my own response, no idea what the friend will do. It’s his life, not mine … and I can only accept the gifts that come with this painful situation.
And you are an excellent writer…so good with words that create imaginative imagery and contemplation. Not to mention your honesty that invites me to do the same. Thank you.
Anyone who ever comes to me and asks for help, when they show up, I know that I’m alive, not simply alive but meaningfully alive. Happy Saturday to all!
There are many who inspire me to show up as my most alive self – from everyone here, to scientists, authors, musicians/artists… all people can be inspiration.
Have a great weekend everyone 🙂 I have been really enjoying a Netflix Series, Derry Girls. It is belly laughing hilarious, loving it. Just finished Season 2, will finish Season 3 tonight. episodes are short < 30 mins each. LOVE Irish/British humor.
I haven’t watched Derry Girls yet. I enjoyed a travel documentary, Exploring Northern Ireland with Siobhán McSweeney, who plays Sister Michael. She travels on her trusty e-bike “Thunder.” Mine is named Zelda and I could relate to her experiences. The e-assist helps with hills–doesn’t flatten them entirely!
Michele, I went to Bostons Sports Bar with Ngoc yesterday afternoon to celebrate her birthday for today. I had some ice cream with caramel, chocolate sauce, and syrup for dessert. You just inspired me to get back to being more disciplined in taking care of my diabetes.
Not a who, but a “what.” Waking up to another day ☀️
But also there are too many “who’s” along the way who have inspired me in some way, but no one in particular at this point in my life other than myself… my Self ✨
No one person comes to mind. There are many who’ve gone on to the Light. While they were here they heavily influenced me by how they lived with integrity their own spiritual truths. I’m grateful for the Ancestors who affirmed me to be the best me I can be. May all who seek rest this weekend find it. Blessings to the many who are Mothers-whether biologically or by choice; or by being aunties. 🌺🫶🏽☮️
If you read
(which you did)
my reflection from the other day,
dear Joseph,
you know that my response to today’s Question
is perfectly aligned with yours . . .
the Universe. ♥
The universe inspires me to show up everyday with a clean True mind free from “my” judgements of this or that- it’s so beautiful to get to let go and be free. Just live today and be happy ! Thank you so much for the method to become Truth! I can’t believe how fortunate I am truly blessed. I love you so much .
I was not too surprised by your answer Antoinette. The universe was the first thought that appeared. I typed, hit post, then scrolled down to read the one reflection that had been posted. Like minds? How is Simba getting along?
Hi Joseph! Thank you. He’s on two medications right now but still licks his leg . 🙄 Crossing my fingers that over the weekend it gets better. Very kind of you to ask. Happy weekend to you ! Still cold in Norway !
I had a dog growing up,
dear Antoinette,
named Betsy,
and dogs for most of my adult life.
Moving around as I did later,
it was impossible to find rentals that took dogs,
so I have cats.
I’ll always remember the wonderful dogs
who shared my life . . .
I love them all–
both dogs and cats. ♥
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Me! Practicing being grateful helps me show up as my most alive self 🌹💕🌞
How is your ex-husband doing,
dear Robin Ann? ♥
Sometimes me. When I feel most accepting of myself, I show up as my most alive self. ♥️
Self-acceptance = aliveness. Thank you Mary, I hadn’t put that together.
I said it, but I hadn’t quite put it together either, Drea.
So thank you, too!😊
Mary, this reminds me of a longer post not to far back where I talked about some friends nicknaming me “Flu Game Loc” derived by Michael Jordan’s famous flu game in the 1997 finals where he dropped 38 points in 44 minutes against the Jazz willing his Bulls to a game 5 90-88 victory to take a 3-2 series lead. Not only can I be happy without going into flu-game mode, I feel more peaceful without it too. Flu game mode eventually leads to burnout sooner than later.
I can’t really point to one person. There have been a few people along the way that I have admired for their commitment to showing up and fully participating. It took me a long time, but I finally decided that, when I had the opportunity, I would
fully commit and participate. No sitting back. No waiting for others to start or say something.
I would be that person. I would raise my hand and go first. It’s just fear that was keeping me back. Fear of being judged or mis-judged or perceived as too eager and maybe the fear of being seen as uncool or inexperienced.
I know these feelings well,
dear Charlie . . .
thank goodness
they don’t haunt me quite as much as they used to.
I hope this is true for you too. ♥
Me.
I inspire myself to be my most alive, authentic self.
There have been & are many influences that have motivated me & guided me to be the best version of myself.
My faith, family, friends, this site, the Universe all contribute to my showing up & being wonderful Me. 😊
Happy Saturday to All…🕊️🩷
I love how you demonstrate self love PkR! Thanks you for sharing.
And a happy Saturday to you PKR.
Apossal Paul doesn’t talk about going to heaven one day. He inspires me to appreciate everything I have. We have everything at our disposal more than we realize. The problem is that we’re greedy for more.
My son, my neighbor, Denisse, the staff at gratefulness.org, the Daily question community and myself.
♥
Anyone who gives me a chance to do what I love most – resource for ideas or studies/books; teach/lead; listen/guide; tell stories; laugh; preach; sit with and listen to people who are different from me; dance; listen to fun music. Sometimes that’s me. Sometimes it’s God/(substitute your word here – I choose God), and sometimes it’s a friend, acquaintance, colleague or random person.
The students that I have taught. Their determination to work with a deficiency and show up for classes, makes me alive.
As Michele said, many inspire me. Most recently, a friend, spun out by his messy divorce, put me in the middle of a situation of his own creation. When I attempted an honest resolution, he disbelieved me and brushed me off. To believe one’s ego, to attack, then dismiss, to avoid responsibility and humility–these are deadening behaviors. If this man continues his trajectory, he’ll eventually embalm himself in his own defenses. Paradoxically, this motivates me to be more honest, imperfect, open, alive. To feel the pain, and to be open surrender. In the midst of relational conflict, someone else’s bad example can inspire me to be examine my own reactions, sharpen my discernment, and be strong.
“someone else’s bad example can inspire me to be examine my own reactions, sharpen my discernment, and be strong” – wise wisdom in that – I 100% agree, thank you Drea.
Thank you Michele. I’m working on being wise. It’s work, for sure–the dignified path.
Relationships can and are challenging and have complications. Just as life I think, Drea.
It’s true, Joseph. I gloss over that sometimes until it smacks me in the face. Maybe that’s a necessary condition of being alive–enjoy each moment as it comes, be present during the unpleasant ones too.
It works both ways,
doesn’t it,
dear Drea?
Thank you for pointing that out. ♥
ps. Perhaps your friend
will realize the truth of what happened between you . . .
perhaps not.
In any case,
I am happy that you saw the value in your response. (♥)
Thank you Sparrow. I need to keep focusing on my own response, no idea what the friend will do. It’s his life, not mine … and I can only accept the gifts that come with this painful situation.
And you are an excellent writer…so good with words that create imaginative imagery and contemplation. Not to mention your honesty that invites me to do the same. Thank you.
Thank you Katrina!
Anyone who ever comes to me and asks for help, when they show up, I know that I’m alive, not simply alive but meaningfully alive. Happy Saturday to all!
My Ngoc, the feeling of being needed can make us feel more compatent.
There are many who inspire me to show up as my most alive self – from everyone here, to scientists, authors, musicians/artists… all people can be inspiration.
https://nationaltoday.com/national-butterscotch-brownie-day/ – I am inspired to try and make these instead of buying a regular box of brownies.
Have a great weekend everyone 🙂 I have been really enjoying a Netflix Series, Derry Girls. It is belly laughing hilarious, loving it. Just finished Season 2, will finish Season 3 tonight. episodes are short < 30 mins each. LOVE Irish/British humor.
I haven’t watched Derry Girls yet. I enjoyed a travel documentary, Exploring Northern Ireland with Siobhán McSweeney, who plays Sister Michael. She travels on her trusty e-bike “Thunder.” Mine is named Zelda and I could relate to her experiences. The e-assist helps with hills–doesn’t flatten them entirely!
I love soooo many characters on that series, and she is def one of them! I will have to check that travel documentary out, thank you 🙂
Michele, I went to Bostons Sports Bar with Ngoc yesterday afternoon to celebrate her birthday for today. I had some ice cream with caramel, chocolate sauce, and syrup for dessert. You just inspired me to get back to being more disciplined in taking care of my diabetes.
Not a who, but a “what.” Waking up to another day ☀️
But also there are too many “who’s” along the way who have inspired me in some way, but no one in particular at this point in my life other than myself… my Self ✨
No one person comes to mind. There are many who’ve gone on to the Light. While they were here they heavily influenced me by how they lived with integrity their own spiritual truths. I’m grateful for the Ancestors who affirmed me to be the best me I can be. May all who seek rest this weekend find it. Blessings to the many who are Mothers-whether biologically or by choice; or by being aunties. 🌺🫶🏽☮️
The Universe. Peace, Love & Light.
If you read
(which you did)
my reflection from the other day,
dear Joseph,
you know that my response to today’s Question
is perfectly aligned with yours . . .
the Universe. ♥
The universe inspires me to show up everyday with a clean True mind free from “my” judgements of this or that- it’s so beautiful to get to let go and be free. Just live today and be happy ! Thank you so much for the method to become Truth! I can’t believe how fortunate I am truly blessed. I love you so much .
I was not too surprised by your answer Antoinette. The universe was the first thought that appeared. I typed, hit post, then scrolled down to read the one reflection that had been posted. Like minds? How is Simba getting along?
Hi Joseph! Thank you. He’s on two medications right now but still licks his leg . 🙄 Crossing my fingers that over the weekend it gets better. Very kind of you to ask. Happy weekend to you ! Still cold in Norway !
I had a dog growing up,
dear Antoinette,
named Betsy,
and dogs for most of my adult life.
Moving around as I did later,
it was impossible to find rentals that took dogs,
so I have cats.
I’ll always remember the wonderful dogs
who shared my life . . .
I love them all–
both dogs and cats. ♥
Sending healing throughts to Simba,
dear Antoinette
with love . . . ♥
Thank you . Do you have a dog too ?