On Thanksgiving Day 2024 our bright tables will be set against a worldwide darkness. As long back as anyone can remember, news from home and from abroad has never been more chilling. Disheartened, I asked a great wise woman whom I love and admire: What message can I possibly share with my friends, in order to give them hope? Her four-word answer came with a radiant smile: “We have one another.”

That’s it! We have one another. We can look in one another’s eyes shining in candle light and know: we belong. Those dear and near us will strengthen us, come what may. Yet, strength against the others is an illusion. There are no others! We are all one.

Well-fed as we are, we need the needy as much as they need us. Only the children rummaging garbage dumps for food can feed our own unacknowledged hunger; only the frightened children under a rain of bombs and, yes, the equally fearful bomber pilots, generals, and weapon merchants can relieve our own deepest fear, if we realize that we are one with them. Only the homeless can heal our most painful homesickness; only the most hopeless can restore our hope, if all of us acknowledge their dignity and work together towards solving the problems we share.

This is the hope I wish you and all of us throughout this season of light and for 2025. Let us make room at our festive table for the whole human family. There’s hope, because “we have one another.”

Your brother David


Br. David Steindl-Rast, OSB
Br. David Steindl-Rast, OSB

Brother David Steindl-Rast — author, scholar, and Benedictine monk — is beloved the world over for his enduring message about gratefulness as the true source of lasting happiness. Known to many as the “grandfather of gratitude,” Br. David has been a source of inspiration and spiritual friendship to countless leaders and luminaries around the world including Desmond Tutu, the Dalai Lama, Thich Nhat Hanh, Thomas Merton, and more. He has been one of the most important figures in the modern interfaith dialogue movement, and has taught with thought-leaders such as Eckhart Tolle, Jack Kornfield, and Roshi Joan Halifax. His wisdom has been featured in recent interviews with Oprah Winfrey, Krista Tippett, and Tami Simon and his TED talk has been viewed almost 10,000,000 times. Learn more about Br. David here.

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